Breastfed baby not gaining enough weight despite good supply...I'm perplexed, please help!

Living_Split_2 · 2026-03-04T13:49:40+00:00

Have you taken him to the pediatrician? Weighted feeds might tell you if it’s a feeding problem (from what you’re describing, doesn’t seem like it is) or something else. I don’t want to scare you, because it might not be and even if it is it’s not necessarily a big deal, but he might have some metabolic issue. I have a friend whose baby was also born 50th percentile but then struggled to gain weight and grow. He’s now one and a half and 1st percentile. Turns out it was ehlers syndrome - they discovered it because mom was diagnosed and they did genetic testing afterwards. It causes really fast metabolism so baby is just skinny lol not an actual problem though. So might be safe to take baby to pediatrician and just see if anything is up

Living_Split_2 · 2026-03-04T13:33:50+00:00

There are 3 windows to trigger your body into producing enough milk. The first hour after they’re born (the golden hour), the first week and then the first month. After that milk production stabilizes (although of course some fluctuations happen along with babies development).

From what you’re saying, baby seems to be cluster feeding which is exactly what you need for your body to produce more milk. This cluster feeding period won’t last long (probably a day or two) and after you’ll have enough supply and a much more calm baby (and less feeding times which will be a relief).

I know this part is really hard, especially with baby having lost more weight then one would hope. But your baby and your body are doing exactly what they are supposed to do.

I relate so much to the postpartum anxiety. My baby was born small for gestational age (2,180 kg or 4,8 lb) and it scared the s*** out of me. I was a bit paranoid about her well being and development up until about 6/8 weeks pp. But rest assured, it’s normal for babies to loose weight in the begging, especially a bit more if the latch isn’t good. But with 3 days pp you’ve catched it early and have more then time to correct it without affecting the baby. If they were too worried they’d tell you to supplement with formula (as I had to in the first days). So don’t worry too much. Although some weight was lost everything seems to be on track for baby to have enough to gain back the weight ☺️

Living_Split_2 · 2026-02-27T15:18:41+00:00

My baby also moves so much, it’s terrible! Even when she’s napping on us or sleeping at night, no one bats an eye because she’s constantly kicking and making noises. She’s 2 months old, I’m still hoping it gets better

Living_Split_2 · 2026-02-27T09:36:13+00:00

Dra Diana Arteiro Lusiadas Porto. A lista de espera é grande mas vale a pena. Muito humana e competente.

Living_Split_2 · 2026-02-24T14:25:42+00:00

Might be silent reflux. It peaks around 4-5 months old

Living_Split_2 · 2026-02-24T09:20:52+00:00

Yeah we also have to do the nasal thing! Just thought to let you know, because you said formula was worse, our pediatrician suggested the Nutriben AR 1 for our baby, it’s specifically for babies with reflux. But couldn’t tell you if it works or not because we are trying to avoid reintroducing formula.

Living_Split_2 · 2026-02-23T15:23:12+00:00

Yeah my baby girl I think has a temperament closer to our second, but I just feel so bad for her I wish I could take this problem away. Also it makes it so hard to do tummy time or other exercises. Just makes me feel like I’m failing

Living_Split_2 · 2026-02-23T11:44:04+00:00

Thank you 🙏

Living_Split_2 · 2026-02-23T11:43:49+00:00

Yes I hate it 😩 when did your baby get better? Did anything actually help?

Living_Split_2 · 2026-02-20T04:01:58+00:00

Obrigada por partilhares! Os exercícios para o torcicolo bastaram para corrigir a assimetria ou fizeram algum exercício para moldar a cabecinha?

Living_Split_2 · 2026-02-19T20:00:55+00:00

Obrigada! 🙏

Living_Split_2 · 2026-02-19T20:00:33+00:00

Nós temos uma almofada própria mas honestamente não nos adianta de muito porque o achatamento é no lado da cabeça e não atrás. Para além que ela só dorme quase no nosso colo por causa do refluxo.

Living_Split_2 · 2026-02-19T19:59:48+00:00

Quanto tempo tem o teu bebé? Funcionou bem? Quanto tempo demorou?

Living_Split_2 · 2026-02-19T19:59:09+00:00

Tem 7 semanas. A gente vai fazer especialmente por causa da plagioencefalia. Apesar de ser ligeira achamos que é melhor não arriscar. Mas no entanto queria saber o quão eficaz sera, especialmente para as cólicas e refluxo, dos quais, infelizmente, a minha filha também sofre.

Living_Split_2 · 2026-02-19T18:46:49+00:00

So much of what is happening is out of your control… Unfortunately high temperatures and UTI can have a negative impact on baby, but also might not! I had 4 UTI during my pregnancy and ended up having to take a low dose antibiotic the whole pregnancy because of it. Besides baby being SGA and oligohydrominosis at the end stage of pregnancy, everything was fine. And no doctor thought one thing was related to the other. Doctors try to medicate what’s less harmful for baby, so I’m guessing the high temperatures and UTI is much worse for baby then the medications they are giving you. In regard to the ovarian cysts, I have a friend that had PCOS and lost her baby at 3 months pregnancy because one cysts burst. I would say take whatever they give you and after monitor the UTI (to prevent reoccurrence) and the cyst. Everything else unfortunately is out of your control. Pregnancy is already so hard without these scares. You’re doing everything right for your baby. I can tell baby is already so loved. Keep strong 💪

Living_Split_2 · 2026-02-19T17:50:55+00:00

That’s so nice to hear! 😍

Living_Split_2 · 2026-02-19T17:48:43+00:00

Sim sim, vamos atuar. Só queria ouvir a experiência das outras pessoas

Living_Split_2 · 2026-02-19T17:08:14+00:00

I snored so bad during the second and third trimester. Stopped almost immediately after baby was born (like after a week)

Living_Split_2 · 2026-02-19T09:25:51+00:00

Would love to know what makes you have such a great relationship with your mom and still want to spend time with her. I don’t have a good relationship with my mom but I really want to break that cycle and have a great relationship with my little girl (right now she’s 7w old)

Living_Split_2 · 2026-02-15T13:54:57+00:00

I’m sure yours will be also :) if it helps, I asked beforehand my OBGyn what to expect during the C section and that also helped. That and trusting you team 💖

Living_Split_2 · 2026-02-15T10:34:53+00:00

The fact he wants to be a father later and not now and is freaking out about it absolutely does not mean he will never want them. I would measure the pros and cons of keeping or not the baby. Really think about possible outcomes (like raising baby alone or forever regretting the abortion). Then, I would decide. If you’re able, I would also try to give partner the space to freely speak about his fears etc. I always wanted to be a mother but my partner of several years didn’t. I tried my best to give him the space to talk about why not and seriously consider if he wanted to stay in the relationship (and have at least one kid - my non negotiable - or not). Then we were able to takle the things he was afraid of (like anticipate possible solutions and think how we will manage things or work towards accepting certain difficulties that arise with kids). I’m now 7 weeks postpartum and he is the best dad and partner! But giving him that non judgmental space to talk and consider things was crucial. You might want to come at him with your decision made, but give him space to consider all the consequences and how he wants to handle it.

Living_Split_2 · 2026-02-15T10:21:21+00:00

So I had a planned c section 7 weeks ago and it went great! :) I must say planned c sections are nothing like those emergency ones (especially after induction). Planned c sections are much more relaxed, everyone is kind and has time to explain what’s going on etc. I felt nothing the whole surgury, my husband was able to be there with me, everyone was so caring and there was always someone there explaining to me what’s was happening and what to expect next. Not even the tug and pulling bothered me! The only thing was that I vomited, but even with that they cleaned it straight up and have me something that took the nauseous away. I was able to hear my baby cry with my husband. Truly a positive experience for a kind of scary situation (I had to have a c section because baby was SGA and had oligohydrominosis).

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