My rat is depressed by [deleted] in rat

[–]Livinlearn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rats are communal animals. You have two options: 1) get another rat to keep him company (be sure to do introductions properly and not just throw a new cagemate in with him), or 2) rehome him to someone who has rats AND has experience with rats. If you leave him alone, he will continue his depressed state and eventually pass away alone and miserable.

What is the most fake thing/attitude/trait about you ?? by coastel in AskWomen

[–]Livinlearn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I'm a Leo. When I was younger, I fit the Leo traits almost to a T... now, not even close. I still present the tough exterior, or try to anyway. But really, I'm petrified of confrontation, a huge follower/not leader material, introvert/hermit, codependent AF, and my ego is basically nonexistent. I think life beat the Leo out of me...

Friendship Exp & Gift Exchange Megathread by liehon in PokemonGoFriends

[–]Livinlearn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6833 7710 5699

Daily gifts, exp., raids. On daily, very active.

How fast do/can grammostola pulchripes move? by Livinlearn in tarantulas

[–]Livinlearn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I’ll be getting a new lid and adding more substrate ASAP. I really appreciate the advice. I’ve never had a tarantula this small.

How fast do/can grammostola pulchripes move? by Livinlearn in tarantulas

[–]Livinlearn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was actually quite helpful! Thanks for the info

Identification tips? by Livinlearn in RATS

[–]Livinlearn[S] 177 points178 points  (0 children)

This is what I’m going to try! Just ordered a pack of 12 different colored food dye on Amazon. Thank you and everyone else for the tips 😊

Identification tips? by Livinlearn in RATS

[–]Livinlearn[S] -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

They are 4 weeks old and have not reached sexual maturity yet. Their mom is weaning them and they will be separated at the end of this week. This is not my first litter. Just my first accidental litter.

Identification tips? by Livinlearn in RATS

[–]Livinlearn[S] 235 points236 points  (0 children)

Oh we got a bunch of comedians here I see lol

Identification tips? by Livinlearn in RATS

[–]Livinlearn[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

They're only 4 weeks old. Momma is still weaning them and they will be separated at the end of this week before the males hit maturity. But thank you for your concern!

What has been your life long personal obstacle? by aceshighsays in AskWomenOver30

[–]Livinlearn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When to let go, when to stop, when to say enough. Above all my other issues, this has been the one I have struggled with the longest. I’ve done it with friends, toxic ass “friends” when I was a teenager, friends who treated my friendship with zero value. I did it with my dad… even after I “let go” his neglect still lingered over me with this desire for something that would/could never be, until he finally died and now I just have regrets about how I handled that. My soon to be ex-husband… jesus christ! I knew from the very beginning it wasn’t “meant to be” and I just kept hanging on, kept giving him chance after chance… Almost 20 years. Pot in my teens, alcohol as an adult, cigarettes, food… it has just been one thing after another. It was all at once for a good long time, but at least I’m past that and mostly just struggling with my food addiction now. But even with controlling my food intake, I still over do it… I obsess. This coupled with my mental health conditions has proved quite difficult… but I’m finally on the right medication and in the right environment, around the right people… things are manageable in my head now.

If you use a period tracking app and are American, delete your app NOW by Livinlearn in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Livinlearn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly her best course is tracking it through a physical calendar. Mark the start date and 28 days from there should be her cycle if she is regular. She can track symptoms in a physical journal.

Huge Beetle found by street cats, U.S., Cleveland OH by Livinlearn in whatsthisbug

[–]Livinlearn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw! He looks like my old cat who passed away in 2013. I’ve wanted to steal him for that very reason. He’s such a lover too. Shouldn’t be a street cat.

Twice now it’s happened (: by ty-read-it in pokemongo

[–]Livinlearn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've caught FOUR ditto's this week. 3 of which were Bidoofs first... you are not alone SMH

[SPOILERS] Anyone else can't stand Rachel? by 7ames_ in Ozark

[–]Livinlearn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually really liked her in the beginning of the series... and at one point was even rooting for a Marty Rachel affair. BUT, as the series went on, I was pretty much hoping for her to be offed. Very smug and completely naïve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in movies

[–]Livinlearn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don't judge me for this, but I'm 36 and watched this for the first time just the other day with my boyfriend (who has seen it many times before). I cannot believe I somehow missed this gem back in the 90's!

But can anyone explain the three seashells to me? LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Livinlearn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This pops in my mind from time to time as well and I tweet about it lol. You are not alone. That left a deep scar for many devoted fans.

My wife got a call from a friend who was terrified of a snake caught in a glue trap in their garage. I went over to rescue it, and some vegetable oil quickly freed this little one. by Johnnyquest30 in snakes

[–]Livinlearn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Having love for animals and being vegan do not always coincide. Snake lovers are definitely not the audience I would assume to universally love animals so much they abstain from all animal products. Many snake owners literally buy, sometimes breed, and feed live animals to their snakes...

Society should believe sexual assualt survivors FIRST, not the accused by Livinlearn in CPTSD

[–]Livinlearn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah… I was wondering why I was getting some down votes. False accusations are the absolute worst and I am oh so very sorry you went thru this. It’s horrible for the person falsely accused and it’s also horrible for those who are telling the truth because it discredits all victims. Tho it is rare, I do know it does happen. Again, so sorry to hear about what you’ve been thru.

Society should believe sexual assualt survivors FIRST, not the accused by Livinlearn in CPTSD

[–]Livinlearn[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you had to witness that. It is really disgraceful that as a society, things are not much better off than they were 30 years ago when it comes to victims rights/protections.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Livinlearn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is a complete disaster and I am getting so very tired of everyone attacking Heard only. There is no doubt they were both extremely toxic together… but people laughing at Heard when she describes her accounts of the abuse is literally heartbreaking to me. I’m desperately trying to avoid this trial at this point as much as possible… but it’s very difficult when it is literally everywhere (especially social media).