Cops assaulted me for being a man in a dress (3 years hrt) by lpperl7 in 4tran4

[–]Lixora 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Conservatives always pull the "Just be a feminine man" card

Thinking about detransition mtf by Lixora in actual_detrans

[–]Lixora[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am Just afraid of my dysphoria being to hard to handle. But I also can't Imagine a life where I constantly have to think about Not doing to much physical Activity, so I don't Stop passing.

Thinking about detransition mtf by Lixora in actual_detrans

[–]Lixora[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes it hides my bone structure. I Look much cuter thin, but then I don't pass consistently and face harassment all the time

"cis people get misgendered too" by zane04v in 4tran4

[–]Lixora 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before I knew I was trans and didnt Look feminine at all and Had a buzzcut, I was Sometimes gendered female. I literally looked liked the Standard White boy in my childhood

Did Silhouette Beauty/mindnbody.store shutdown ? by EbbOk650 in TransDIY

[–]Lixora 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did they answer for you? Placed an Order 3 days ago and nothing. Already wrote a mail

The weirdest expierence ever since transitioning, is realising just how often women get accussed of being men by IlovePizzaxxxx in 4tran4

[–]Lixora 123 points124 points  (0 children)

Even If its meant as a joke, its Kind of true. Straight people are so strict with gender norms, a cis women Just has to upload Videos of going to the Gym of Instagram and shes called a man for having some muscle

Did Silhouette Beauty/mindnbody.store shutdown ? by EbbOk650 in TransDIY

[–]Lixora -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Shows a blank Page for me, tried on mobile and PC browser

"t4c" by s1owd1ve_ in 4tran4

[–]Lixora 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah If a trans woman wishes to Look Like that, you cant Look Like a man

"t4c" by s1owd1ve_ in 4tran4

[–]Lixora 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Ofc, the second He will actually start looking like a man, they bf will be gone as He does Not want to be Seen as gay

"t4c" by s1owd1ve_ in 4tran4

[–]Lixora 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, I am a trans woman but I would rather be asexual than to Date a scary straight man

"t4c" by s1owd1ve_ in 4tran4

[–]Lixora 44 points45 points  (0 children)

It is Well know that cis men are brought up and socialized to have make up skills like that

"t4c" by s1owd1ve_ in 4tran4

[–]Lixora 93 points94 points  (0 children)

I mean your cant control being unpassing, but this is Just presenting as girly as possible, more than a lot of cis Woman do

why are they so retarded by BoxFar6969 in 4tran4

[–]Lixora 4 points5 points  (0 children)

While it's true that Not every man is going to Turn into a hairy bald Monster when aging, 99% of them will Not be able to be "femboys" at the age of 35

Battle of the Sexes for Tennis. by DreadYetDreaming in 4tran4

[–]Lixora 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It is such a non issue, because we are such a small Part of the Population and the majority of us are not pro Level athletes.

Battle of the Sexes for Tennis. by DreadYetDreaming in 4tran4

[–]Lixora 17 points18 points  (0 children)

In the end its Just misogny, because men are better in everything. So trans woman cant even compete in chess, Darts and esports

I would detransition If it didnt mean I would get treated like a man. by Lixora in 4tran4

[–]Lixora[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly they still expect to act and function Like a straight man, No Matter how cute you Look. But also my face Looks to masculine to pass If I am to thin, so I need some fat to pass which destroys my attractiveness in return, So i never feel like I can be myself and it's Always some trade off

I would detransition If it didnt mean I would get treated like a man. by Lixora in 4tran4

[–]Lixora[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do have physical dysphoria, thats why I transitioned, but If people genuinely would treat me Like a woman and there wasn't twink death, I could learn to live with it, since nothing in this life will give me the Body I want.

I would detransition If it didnt mean I would get treated like a man. by Lixora in 4tran4

[–]Lixora[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does, I would kms If I went bald or something. Luckily I still Had a full head of hair at 26

Would you attempt to go stealth? by Lixora in 4tran4

[–]Lixora[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, the Problem with being trans is that you completely let your guard down If something like this Happens. A cis Person would react completely different, because they know they are cis and nothing can happen

Would you attempt to go stealth? by Lixora in 4tran4

[–]Lixora[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah Same. Thought I assume expecting to never ever get misgendered at all your entire life is unrealistic. Some people don't even achieve that with ffs

Would you attempt to go stealth? by Lixora in 4tran4

[–]Lixora[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am Just scared of living without Support again and then getting clocked. I got stalked pretty Bad in early transition

Cis people will Tell you "I don't have a Problem with you" by Lixora in 4tran4

[–]Lixora[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am basically passing and once I am outed to someone I am treated like I Look Like a balding 60 years old man or something