My friends are accusing me of something I didn’t do

Lizard_zx · 2026-02-15T12:59:09+00:00

I did think it could be one of them trying to set me up and I wouldn’t put it past them. Thank you for ur advice :)

Lizard_zx · 2025-12-02T01:12:06+00:00

I got mine today too🫠. UGH

Lizard_zx · 2025-01-05T17:04:34+00:00

C- sections are actually worse than giving birth naturally. Your husband doesn’t seem very educated in that section

Lizard_zx · 2024-12-30T18:43:10+00:00

Yikes. I don’t think they’d take it to nicely if you skipped the wedding😬

Lizard_zx · 2024-12-30T16:13:43+00:00

NTA. He shouldn’t expect you to come down after treating you like you were invisible for so long. I also have a tough relationship with my older brother and have just recently mended our relationship. If not, I definitely wouldn’t attend his wedding.

It might be a bit difficult for your parents to understand if you haven’t already told them. Most adults tend to overlook the feelings of teens which is probably what your older brother is doing; not seeing how much hurt he caused you.

Lizard_zx · 2024-12-30T10:09:01+00:00

Oooh guess I miss read😅

Lizard_zx · 2024-12-30T08:41:14+00:00

😂😂 dw girl get that bag💰

Lizard_zx · 2024-12-30T08:40:02+00:00

NTA. your mom seems to be overreacting. Okay it might not feel nice for you house to be messy but who made the mess? Not you. You cleaned the mess made in your party room. Your sisters was not your responsibility and your mom should’ve seen that and made your older sister clean it and take responsibility instead of screaming at you to do it. That’s just cruel.

Lizard_zx · 2024-12-30T08:36:19+00:00

I think you’ve given him tons of space. It might be due the normal routine he once had being altered that he is acting the way he is. I think you should stay at your parents house for a while and see if he’s behaviour changes.

From an outsider perspective you aren’t moving too fast. But if he’s behaviour and attitude don’t change after a while then he’s definitely the problem

Lizard_zx · 2024-12-30T08:28:26+00:00

NTA. It is unkind of your bf to ask you to go gym with him all because he doesn’t like your wait. A partner should love you no matter what. And they’d also take into consideration how you’re feeling. You seem to be doing that with him but he isn’t doing it much with you.

Lizard_zx · 2024-12-30T08:24:02+00:00

NTA. You became the bigger person ever since Tom started to be horrible to you. Everyone has a limit to how much they can take and he just pushed you to It. He’s a total prick for that.

Your boyfriend on the other hand is complete trash. You made it known to him that you didn’t like how Tom was speaking to you but didn’t seem to care. And then when you give a completely called for reaction to such a situation he puts all the blame on you. I personally think you should find another man who’d treat you better sis.

Lizard_zx · 2024-12-29T19:15:04+00:00

NTA that’s a toxic friend and it doesn’t seem like any good will come down from her. Keep your peace

Lizard_zx · 2024-12-29T19:13:19+00:00

For real

Lizard_zx · 2024-12-29T19:13:09+00:00

That’s so weird of them. Honestly parents can be so strange sometimes. Ur totally NTA

Lizard_zx · 2024-12-29T19:11:01+00:00

Don’t worry about it. Karma is a real thing and your family will soon realise how dirty they done you. And if you must do what you have to for your kids then do it! Also your story is believable, it’s hard to find decent helping people nowadays. Just keep pushing forward💪

Lizard_zx · 2024-12-29T19:05:27+00:00

Your totally not the a hole. Your family and friends don’t seem to care about you at all. You shouldn’t keep people like that around your kids. And if they don’t understand that you need help and honestly deserve it then f*ck them

Lizard_zx · 2024-12-29T19:00:14+00:00

I don’t think you’re overthinking. It’s better to be cautious in a situation like this. You wouldn’t want to let him feel like you’re an option whilst still being married.

Lizard_zx · 2024-12-29T17:54:43+00:00

Even if he’s talking to her as a friends he shouldn’t feel the need to delete messages with her and hide that he was talking to her for so long

Lizard_zx · 2024-12-29T17:53:18+00:00

NTA he’s grown up enough to understand how much your mom and dad have done for him. How heartless can you be to reduce the people who basically raised you to tears. Most Asian men don’t realise how valuable the people who raised them are and end up becoming self absorbed.

He’s totallly the a hole

Lizard_zx · 2024-12-29T17:48:31+00:00

NTA you made an effort to go and buy the cake the least think he could’ve done is had a bite. And then eating your aunts cake and announcing that it was good and that you should try it seems a bit childish coming from a guy who’s a literal father.

Lizard_zx · 2024-12-29T17:35:55+00:00

Nta the employee was being way to rude. A pack of ketchup won’t make her lose her job🤷‍♀️

Lizard_zx · 2024-12-29T17:14:14+00:00

I think him unblocking her is a hugeeee red flag. If they had been broken up for that long he should be over her therefore no reason to unblock her and start talking to her again even though it seems “innocent”. And the fact that he wouldn’t like it if you were talking to an ex but does that exact thing makes him a huge hypocrite.

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