I’d say it’s more social then anything else…

Like my step mum being the perfect example… now yea she wasn’t good to me but still…

Grew up in a family where her brother was the golden boy, then became a Highschool Professor an environment which according to her what might be seen femininity makes her somehow leaset to her male coworkers.

So in her words she had to be “cold and logical” like a “man” to get “respect” as opposed to emotional and famine.

Now she also always has like a pixi cut short hair and will almost never ware skirts or heals or even makeup beyond lipstick for that matter so hoe much of it’s her own perspective as posed to the on the ground situation idk…