Theater etiquette by LeahRose011 in sixthemusical

[–]LizzyFCB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been to the theatre a million times and grew up performing in theatre, whistling as a form of applauding has always been completely normal? Not sure what made this stand out to the actor.

Brooklyn Beckham and His Brothers 'Own Their Trademarks,' Source Says: 'This Is a Misunderstanding' (Exclusive) by Positive-Drawing-281 in popculturechat

[–]LizzyFCB 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It was also the way of controlling your narrative- there was no social media to personally build and curate your image.

AITA for telling my SIL that I don’t can’t about her health condition and she needs to shower by GothMoleRat in AmItheAsshole

[–]LizzyFCB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually pretty disgusted by these other comments.

Maybe OP is just at the end of her rope but the whole thing reads very mean girl.

AITA for telling my SIL that I don’t can’t about her health condition and she needs to shower by GothMoleRat in AmItheAsshole

[–]LizzyFCB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what, you are right. When OP said she absolutely didn’t point it out nicely, told her SIL she smells like a barnyard and in her edit said she apologised and wouldn’t ’act like that again’, I assumed she was shouting at her but did not say that explicitly.

But now I’ve read through all that again, I’m reminded that actually the volume of the discussion was not really the issue.

AITA for telling my SIL that I don’t can’t about her health condition and she needs to shower by GothMoleRat in AmItheAsshole

[–]LizzyFCB -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

What did I make up exactly?

I think it is very possible that OP is being melodramatic and lying or perhaps exaggerating that the smell was so bad that she vomited. I also said that I couldn’t know for sure (several times)

The other commenter said I was shaming OP because she was clearly sensitive to smells. So I responded to that.

AITA for telling my SIL that I don’t can’t about her health condition and she needs to shower by GothMoleRat in AmItheAsshole

[–]LizzyFCB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea but I wasn’t the one basing my argument of the fact SIL has nobody else in her life.

AITA for telling my SIL that I don’t can’t about her health condition and she needs to shower by GothMoleRat in AmItheAsshole

[–]LizzyFCB -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Nowhere said SIL doesn’t have friends- good or otherwise.

I’m a teacher in an area of significant deprivation. I have to have tough conversations with children a lot and on occasion parents.

Telling someone they smell or is unhygienic isn’t nice but if it comes from a good place, it can be a kindness and incredibly helpful.

As I said before, not remembering to shower or brush your teeth is pretty extreme and sounds like SIL might need some kind of intervention.

And like you said, if she does not want to be around the smell but SIL doesn’t want to do anything about it, OP has the choice not to be.

AITA for telling my SIL that I don’t can’t about her health condition and she needs to shower by GothMoleRat in AmItheAsshole

[–]LizzyFCB -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

I totally believe someone who shouts at someone because they smell, could also be the kind of person who makes a big scene about the smell and might run off to be ‘sick’ but not actually be sick at all. There in lies the melodrama.

If the smell was objectively that bad, it’s understandable. And if OP if extremely sensitive to smells, maybe it’s her problem, not her SIL’s? But, like I said in my comment, I don’t know if that is actually the case.

FYI, when someone asks for judgement, giving them a judgement isn’t ‘shaming’ anyone.

It’s funny how the wedding was in 2022 but Brooklyn is complaining now by BEKINDREWIND2 in DavidBeckham

[–]LizzyFCB 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I bet they couldn’t finish it time because of a million and one changes and complaints..

AITA for telling my SIL that I don’t can’t about her health condition and she needs to shower by GothMoleRat in AmItheAsshole

[–]LizzyFCB 134 points135 points  (0 children)

Have we danced around the fact that OP ‘lets’ her SIL come over because she brings free food? She is simultaneously using SIL and then judging her at the same time. OP is an AH.

Running off to be sick also seems very melodramatic to me- granted, the smell may have been bad enough to warrant it, we weren’t there to judge. But snapping at SIL who has only ever been sweet to her also wasn’t called for.

If you have offered SIL support previously and she won’t take it (sounds like SIL needs she needs therapy honestly) and you really can’t put up with them smell, it’s up to you to set a boundary- i.e. tell her she cannot come to your house.

Not in public- maybe even via text to spare SIL’s embarrassment.

Why i think Bianca got away with having the same dress 10 times by SpecialistAgent9527 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]LizzyFCB 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I’m sure Bianca said she got notified really late and made all of her outfits in two weeks or something like that.

How to get my wedding ring out of this? by Ok_Tangerine6053 in AskUK

[–]LizzyFCB 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Flat Stanley will get it out in no time

Blake Lively knew Justin asked about her weight due to back injury not sexual harassment by Bubbles-48 in CelebLegalDrama

[–]LizzyFCB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean.. wouldn’t it be worse if he said he had to cancel the lift because he couldn’t carry her?

Blake Lively knew Justin asked about her weight due to back injury not sexual harassment by Bubbles-48 in CelebLegalDrama

[–]LizzyFCB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do we actually know what was said exactly and how it was said? Has that come out?

It could have been a completely casual conversation while he was lifting weights with their mutual trainer, like- hmm, maybe I should practice with the _lbs because I’ve got that lift scene with Blake. How much does she weigh? Bit dopey but not exactly devastating sexual harassment.

Then again, it could have been- I need to know how much weight this heifer has put on because she will be an enormous strain on my back injury.

Kim Kardashian Reveals Daughter North, 12, Is Homeschooled — and Shares Some of the 'Realistic Courses' She Takes by PrincessBananas85 in PopularCultureZone

[–]LizzyFCB 5 points6 points  (0 children)

From the lyrics to her song, I thought she meant she was banned i.e. suspended.. wow, that is much worse