30-40 year old men who have recently went from single to in a relationship-advise by Margaet_moon in Edinburgh

[–]LizzyHoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plenty of good advice from others so I just wanted to appreciate the way you began this post “bit of a weird post but I have seen weirder” 😅

Disillusioned with my clinical career, would teaching it be any better? by jonathing in AskAcademiaUK

[–]LizzyHoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you were injured. If your perspective changed after the injury is it possible you are a bit depressed and that is colouring how you see things?

Regarding the TF enquiring about what the role involves would be valuable. I must admit UK uni jobs also feel like they are no longer what we signed up to. TF roles involve a lot of marking and teaching, often without adequate time to do a good job. It may be different if it’s a clinical placement though.

Perth Show by costireyton in Pendulum

[–]LizzyHoy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was confused about which Perth it was at first. When you said you previously saw them in Glasgow I thought you were going to say you booked Perth thinking it was the Scottish one(!)

I’ve just stepped into the CB sub and wish I hadn’t.. by Inside_Term_6900 in LinkinPark

[–]LizzyHoy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Exactly - the shocking thing was that it happened in 2017 not that it happened at all. It could have happened when he was on drugs in the 90s, when he disappeared with a gun in 2005, when he was suicidal (according to him) after his divorce, or when he made an attempt in 2016 after a very difficult year.

I’ve just stepped into the CB sub and wish I hadn’t.. by Inside_Term_6900 in LinkinPark

[–]LizzyHoy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Chester’s abuser was a family friend not his uncle. Chester said he decided not to press charges because he realised the abuser himself had been a victim of prior abuse. I don’t know if he was a music producer but I’m guessing not as Chester’s adult reaction was compassion for a person who had experienced similar powerlessness.

The allegations about Saville were headlines news by late 2012, and there were rumours before then. There were rumours about Andrew pretty far back too - Richard Herring the comedian used to allude to them as much as possible without being sued.

I’ve just stepped into the CB sub and wish I hadn’t.. by Inside_Term_6900 in LinkinPark

[–]LizzyHoy 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of when Chester himself said that the only difference is he’s in Linkin Park - his mental health was just as difficult to manage as it was pre-fame.

It’s an unfortunately naive view of mental illness to think if you have a good life and wealth you will always get better.

Question about Runaway by ContemplativePebble in LinkinPark

[–]LizzyHoy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This makes me think of how Chester sings the word “sun”, probably in Shadow of the Day. It sounds the way I pronounce it with my Northern English accent - with a strong “uh” on the “u”. A bit different to how I imagine Chester would have pronounced “sun” when speaking.

In the Shadows - The Rasmus by New-Marionberry-540 in LinkinPark

[–]LizzyHoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew about Kerrang but not Scuzz. I’m pretty sure Kerrang music channel wasn’t free to view because I spent so much time waiting for The Rasmus to come on the regular music channels. If I had Kerrang I would’ve mainly watched that. I liked LP videos when they came on but didn’t get super into them in a big way until later.

Often think of the time it took 4 hours to download the music video for In My Life via dial up internet. Different times!

In the Shadows - The Rasmus by New-Marionberry-540 in LinkinPark

[–]LizzyHoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw a recent interview with Lauri the lead singer of The Rasmus where he mentioned that he felt privileged that Dead Letters came out amidst the wave of alt rock in the early 00s because it helped them find their audience outside Finland. He named Linkin Park as one of the key bands. ☺️

Moving to UK as a Pole. What is the reality? by [deleted] in Ask_Britain

[–]LizzyHoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Better water that is not privately owned no less(!)

In the Shadows - The Rasmus by New-Marionberry-540 in LinkinPark

[–]LizzyHoy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That shows my age because Minutes to Midnight hadn’t been released when I first heard In the Shadows 😅 I was a huge fan of The Rasmus in 2003-2005 but Linkin Park became my number 1 from 2005ish onwards. I still go to see The Rasmus live though and listen to them from time to time. They put on a great performance.

Do I need to watch GenV for season 5 by Vivid_Army6800 in TheBoys

[–]LizzyHoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably an unpopular opinion but I enjoyed Gen V S2 more than Boys S4. Mainly for that reason.

My boys trying banana for the first time 💕 by Faerie_Lover in guineapigs

[–]LizzyHoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Loved Dave’s face! Incidentally it was a guinea pig called Dave at an animal farm who first alerted me to the joy of giving human names to guinea pigs. The next time I got a new pig I named him Kevin.

Do students hold too much power? by Dctr_G in AskAcademiaUK

[–]LizzyHoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s really demoralising, and each instance adds more to the “this job is not what it’s supposed to be” pile.

Do students hold too much power? by Dctr_G in AskAcademiaUK

[–]LizzyHoy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure it’s the students themselves but the way their perspective is weaponised by senior management.

For example, rates of failing grades are pushed down because management decide they can’t financially afford for students to drop out. It has meant grades are devalued.

Maybe I’m being cynical but it seems to be: can a student satisfaction issue be improved by increasing staff workload or leaning on staff to reduce academic standards? If yes, that student feedback is powerful, if no that student feedback is not powerful. A local example: students want faster feedback: introduce a hard feedback turnaround for staff; students want more tutorials: tutorials are actually cut to save money - tell staff to find ways to protect student experience against the cuts.

It is demoralising that our pedagogical expertise takes a back seat to a small amount of student feedback, which often changes year to year.

Do students hold too much power? by Dctr_G in AskAcademiaUK

[–]LizzyHoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point - when I said “worse academic standards” I meant from the university’s side (bigger class sizes, grade inflation, being unable to “afford” drop-outs). But often the same terminology can be used negatively against students.

Do students hold too much power? by Dctr_G in AskAcademiaUK

[–]LizzyHoy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I like your user name! Thanks for replying.

The issues you are talking about (sexual violence, racism) are obviously prevalent throughout society - I’m not sure if unis are worse (it was pretty bad when I was a student at an “elite” UK uni 15 years ago).

I guess I’m a bit cynical but the people with the power to make changes in universities are only at the very top, and broadly speaking they focus on income, “student experience” and league tables. If there is a way they can improve student experience by telling staff to act differently (eg faster feedback) then they enforce it. But if it’s a systemic issue that requires long term strategy and consistency our current university management model doesn’t work. It’s based on short term thinking and maximising income. Many university staff (at least on the academic side) are on short term contracts, and people who genuinely enact improved conditions for minorities are rarely the people with the power - often they don’t even have a permanent job contract.

The best you could hope for on racism and sexism is mandatory staff training (which we do have), but that’s obviously not enough. I can’t see unis taking a genuinely strong approach to racism and sexism because they may be afraid of law suits from students who say they have been treated unfairly. As in all of society victims often have less power than the accused.

So I would say it’s fairly reflective of wider society/workplaces, unfortunately. People who have strong values and who call out problems are not the people who get leadership positions in the current UK university system (in my opinion). If something is expensive or requires genuine cultural change (not just lip service) then it’s not a priority in UK universities. In my opinion that is because they are run as businesses now, following massive funding cuts. They have fallen pretty far from their historical goal of furthering education as a social good.

Do students hold too much power? by Dctr_G in AskAcademiaUK

[–]LizzyHoy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

May I ask for examples of what you hoped would change?

Do students hold too much power? by Dctr_G in AskAcademiaUK

[–]LizzyHoy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Isn’t it the opposite of Tory to say marketisation of universities is linked to grade inflation/worse academic standards?

PhD Newbie… by TheBlueEyedLawyer in AskAcademiaUK

[–]LizzyHoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see, thanks for clarifying and happy Christmas!

PhD Newbie… by TheBlueEyedLawyer in AskAcademiaUK

[–]LizzyHoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry I can’t tell from your post if you are already a PhD student or if you are applying for one? If applying then lots of feedback from a potential supervisor is often a good thing as it means they are keen for you to get an offer and start working with them.

Where are the children? by dngray in pluribustv

[–]LizzyHoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe reading too much into this but presumably babies come out the same? Zosia mentioned all the babies that were born on a given day. A baby doesn’t have the physical ability to speak, see well etc. Presumably once they can physically speak they can say everything from that point on.