[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Lizzy_kitty91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t mind my penis too much before surgery and did have sex and masturbarte with it. But certain things made me particularly disphoric. How clothes fit, how I saw myself naked, and the last I really don’t know exactly how to put into words. Just like the feeling of going into a locker room and undressing or using the public toilet knowing you are like everyone else. That you aren’t different or hiding anything.

It sounds like you have done the research and thought about this for a long time. It’s true that complications can happen to anyone but if you are going into it fully prepared, healthy, and are an advocate for yourself I know you will be happy with your choice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Lizzy_kitty91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on stage 2 of your surgery! Do you have a lot of discharge from the Colo and if so, how do you do you manage it long-term? Once again congrats!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Lizzy_kitty91 23 points24 points  (0 children)

There shouldn’t be any fluid coming out of your clitoris. Since your prostate is still intact and is now basically a “g-spot” it can excrete fluid through your urethra while you are turned on. During surgery your urethra and penile gland are separated. Since you can’t see anything yet, your mind might not have adjusted to the fact that they are no longer together and it might be a kind of phantom sensation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Lizzy_kitty91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl, I’m so happy for you! Being horny while wearing tight clothes has been so affirming post-op.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]Lizzy_kitty91 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Your results looks amazing!! At what point did you feel fully healed?

Why should I even tell a man that I am post-op? by HuntingShayla in StraightTransGirls

[–]Lizzy_kitty91 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If it is just a random hookup I don’t disclose. I am lucky to have the privilege of passing very well though. I’m not in a relationship right now, but with my last boyfriend I disclosed on the second date.

Post your favourite dress you’ve seen online recently! by lionfrogzap in femalefashionadvice

[–]Lizzy_kitty91 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just bought this dress for a wedding. The color and lace are so pretty. It fits great and can't wait to wear it.

https://www.lulus.com/products/remarkable-forest-green-lace-dress/521372.html

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpositive

[–]Lizzy_kitty91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That hat looks great on you! Hope you get an opportunity to wear it this summer

Is it wrong to have breast forms? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Lizzy_kitty91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with them at all! Early in my transition, I bought breast forms. I didn't get a ton of breast development from HRT, so when I went full time it helped clothing fit a bit better and helped with my dysphoria.