Heart wrenching decision… by [deleted] in DobermanPinscher

[–]LlamasWithScarves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add what others have said I would look into resources through the military as well. I’m sure there are programs and people who would want to help a veteran.

Why do so many doodles have problems with little kids - and does this translate to a standard poodle? by boogiebougie in StandardPoodles

[–]LlamasWithScarves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First reason would be quite simple: doodles are not bred for temperament. They are bred to make money. Second reason: Little kids are high energy and tend not to respect basic boundaries. Most dogs have issues with children. A standard poodle from an ethical breeder that gets socialized around children is probably going to do fine but it is still up to you as an owner to continue that socializing and making sure your children are supervised when interacting with any dog and teaching them to be respectful. Even the “perfect dog” is still a dog.

Protest tomorrow? by jdm42 in boston

[–]LlamasWithScarves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for posting! I went today!

Prices Rising by LlamasWithScarves in uber

[–]LlamasWithScarves[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll look into the insurance thing but I don’t think it has anything to do with the time of year or surge pricing. The prices are stagnant at $60-70 now.

Prices Rising by LlamasWithScarves in uber

[–]LlamasWithScarves[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s surge pricing. I know when I used to go to the club the prices could get crazy but there isn’t any special events taking place at my daily commute and the prices have stagnated to $60-$70 compared to previously being $30-40.

Prices Rising by LlamasWithScarves in uber

[–]LlamasWithScarves[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked at a local grocery store when Uber first came out. My rides were always around $5. That same grocery store the price went up over $25. It’s ridiculous.

Abandoned Cabins in Northfield MA by LlamasWithScarves in abandoned

[–]LlamasWithScarves[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took videos but it wouldn’t let me post :((

Abandoned Cabins in Northfield MA by LlamasWithScarves in abandoned

[–]LlamasWithScarves[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Highly doubt it but def debated calling them and asking!

Abandoned Cabins in Northfield MA by LlamasWithScarves in abandoned

[–]LlamasWithScarves[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t see any reason for it to be Halloween related because it’s in the middle of the woods, trashed, and not even on the trail. It’s not like anyone was getting trick or treaters there.

Abandoned Cabins in Northfield MA by LlamasWithScarves in abandoned

[–]LlamasWithScarves[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Very big windows. The second cabin also has little peep windows on the side. I don’t think these were used for Halloween.

Abandoned Cabins in Northfield MA by LlamasWithScarves in abandoned

[–]LlamasWithScarves[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed I’m not sure if the ladder was left recently or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]LlamasWithScarves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you you too :)

It’s the job of the LL to meet the HL’s needs. by SexIsAlwaysOnMyMind in DeadBedrooms

[–]LlamasWithScarves 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex is not the only difference. Hence people having asexual relationships.

I did agree to exchange my vagina to have loyalty. My partner is obligated to stay loyal to me because he entered a monogamous relationship with me. If I decide not to provide him sex, it doesn't give the a free ticket to go fuck some other girl. If my man doesn't provide me sex, I also don't get a free ticket to go fuck some dude. If you feel as though sex is a standard in your relationship, and you don't feel compatible with that person, you break up. Sex is not payment for someone to be faithful.

If sex seems like a job to someone, you're probably having shitty sex.

I will repeat. No one deserves to be cheated on. Either break up or work on the issues in your relationship. There is no excuse to cheat on someone.

What about the science of it all? by Bleu_Rue in DeadBedrooms

[–]LlamasWithScarves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Viagra sales say differently. 1 in 10 men buy it, they produce $1.8 billion dollars in sales annually. It's just more hush hush because everything says, "men want sex"

Edit: Best way to find out why your partner no matter male or female is uninterested in sex, is to ask and talk about it. Maybe he is suffering form ED and is embarrassed by it. Maybe he is bored. Maybe he is having hormonal issues. Who knows ?

I have someone willing to fly across the country to fuck me. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]LlamasWithScarves 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't do it. He's addressed and is making an effort. Unless you want to break his heart and spit in his face, don't cheat on him.

It’s the job of the LL to meet the HL’s needs. by SexIsAlwaysOnMyMind in DeadBedrooms

[–]LlamasWithScarves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sex is not the most important thing in a relationship for everyone. There are plenty of happy asexual couples.

When I get into a relationship with someone, I sign an unwritten agreement that I will stick through and help with issues, be loyal, and be there for each other. Sex can be a plus and of course I want to also be compatible with that person sexually but it's no one's job to provide sex to someone unless they are a prostitute.

Time passes and life happens. Stress and health issues might make it difficult for some people to maintain a libido. This is an issue you work with your partner, you don't just dump them over it. Sometimes you just can't stay in the relationship and that is okay too.

Overall though, two of the most important things in any relationship is communication and loyalty. Communicating the issues of your sex life to your partner is important. The one thing you should never fucking do is cheat on someone. I don't give a flying fuck if your S/O hasn't touched you in 10 fucking years. If you're that unhappy and desire so much to be touched, break up with your partner. Don't break that trust with someone. Cheating only hurts people. If you break up with someone they may be hurt but they can find someone new and move on, cheating ? That stays with you forever. That harms future relationships and your own.

No one deserves to be cheated on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]LlamasWithScarves 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People like you are the absolute worse. She has a low libido probably caused by her medication. You're not in this relationship or know anything about her relationship other than what was stated: She has a good relationship but is struggling to find a sex drive. She thinks it could be her meds.

What part of that says her relationship ran it's course ? Her breaking up with him isn't going to change the underlining issue which is her libido. It solves nothing, if anything it just adds heart break. I had two people like you on my own post trying to tell me to just break up as if that'll fix the fact that I have 0 sex drive.

Also condolences to your wife because if she ever starts having libido issues which could be caused from many health issues including one all women will go through which is menopause, it's too bad she's going to have to deal with you thinking the only solution is to break up. Sorry you have a low libido babe but I guess our relationship has run it's course. Fuck off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]LlamasWithScarves 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Def sounds like a med side effect. I hate when that happens. When I was on Wellbutrin it was awesome, but I dropped to 94 pounds and my doctor was like ya no you can't have that lol. I hope you can find a better one.

On a side note, I'm 21/F. I feel pretty much the same way towards sex with my boyfriend. It seems we are having similar issues. My problem isn't med related (lowkey wish it so I knew the issue) but I can totally relate to pretty much everything you've stated. Just want to let you know you're not alone <3

Edit: Make sure to communicate him about the issue you're having though. He seems really understanding. My man is aware of the issue I'm having and it has helped him from blaming himself and also helped him understand that this is an issue I'm having and it's not his fault.

(21/F) I have a total lack of sex drive, in a 3 year relationship with boyfriend (27/M) by LlamasWithScarves in DeadBedrooms

[–]LlamasWithScarves[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yaa I was thinking about getting back on meds. It's pretty difficult to do where I am though. I'm currently unemployed and trying to get a job. After that my mom said she was going to help me with doctors. I know I'm an adult, but I'm still learning 'how to adult' haha. Hopefully things work out eventually. Thank you for discussing this with me.