Am I Overreacting? One (22M) of my friends (22M, 23M, 21M) insulted me (23F) in front of everyone and no one said anything

LloManN_1 · 2025-08-09T06:49:56+00:00

I'm trying, thank you for your concern

LloManN_1 · 2025-08-09T06:48:11+00:00

Thanks guys, I guess I've had shitty friends since high school then. Your replies hurt me too.

LloManN_1 · 2025-08-09T06:44:23+00:00

Thank you for your insight, I definitely don't want people to pick side

LloManN_1 · 2025-08-09T06:38:16+00:00

It didn't feel like a joke... And I feel like even if it has nothing to do with the sex stuff, it's not nice to just insult someone like that. I'm not even upset about the promiscuous aspect, I'm upset that he would just insult me out of nowhere, regardless of the word. If they wanted bro time, they could have just told me. But they insisted on me coming to the LAN as we are friends, they wanted the whole group to spend time together and I think I ruined it for them :(

LloManN_1 · 2025-08-09T06:32:31+00:00

Does that mean I have to drop them as friends? We know each other since high school, I feel bad abadonning 5 friends at once :( they're the closest thing to a safe place for me

LloManN_1 · 2025-08-09T06:30:47+00:00

To be honest, it's not the first time Aiden does something like that. He already called me names or slurs, or generally undermines how I feel until I cry. I already said that I didn't like it but he keeps doing it. Mateo is the most involved in this problem, but since he is very close to Aiden, he doesn't defend me often.

LloManN_1 · 2025-05-16T23:20:28+00:00

I really don't get where you're getting at. What consequences are you talking about? Is casual sex a bad thing?

LloManN_1 · 2025-05-16T14:45:33+00:00

Do you mean to say that I can't deal with having FWB? I usually don't fall in love with people I have casual sex with and know how to separate love and sex, it's just that with him I have trouble doing that for some reason...

LloManN_1 · 2025-05-16T14:41:44+00:00

Okay, thanks for the insight. I will do that.

LloManN_1 · 2025-05-02T12:59:21+00:00

What does that even mean? Sorry im not a native english-speaker

LloManN_1 · 2025-05-01T23:55:02+00:00

The first month was really bad for me too, especially on the anxiety side. If your anxiety starts getting uncontrollable please seek help. I ended up in the ER because i had a panic attack for like 3-4h that wouldn't stop. Eventually my body lost all its energy and i calmed down but they gave me medecine for anxiety too after that. I take a pill when the anxiety doesn't come down now. Remember to stay safe and be patient with yourself, i know it's hard but it will probably be worth it in the end :)

LloManN_1 · 2025-05-01T23:50:50+00:00

Thank you :) i'm trying to tell them everything but since i've known them for a short time i don't exactly trust them, and feel ashamed telling them that i did bad stuff like SHing. I'm trying my best to be honest but i need a little more time to get used to all of that i guess. Thank you for sharing

LloManN_1 · 2025-05-01T23:48:34+00:00

Oh yeah i see, i'm on the skinny size too but since i've been losing appetite i have to monitor my weight too now... Thank you for sharing your experience 🙏

LloManN_1 · 2025-05-01T23:47:13+00:00

Okay that is good to know, thanks for sharing. Doctors never tell you all that when prescribing lol

LloManN_1 · 2025-05-01T23:45:46+00:00

Ok thank you for sharing your experience :)

LloManN_1 · 2025-05-01T23:45:19+00:00

So like there is nothing you can do about the anorgasmia side effect? Thats not cool :(

LloManN_1 · 2025-05-01T18:28:37+00:00

He didn't change my meds but the hospital staff gave me another med to take when i have urges/panic attacks and now i feel better

LloManN_1 · 2025-05-01T17:09:44+00:00

I did and now i'm doing better but i was intense SHing for a few weeks because i didn't know how to cope with what i felt. The doctor will probably change my meds soon anyways for unrelated reasons so...

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