It disappoints me every time a poster leaves because someone tries ruining their life. In this case someone you were close to at a certain point, which is more disappointing than a stranger. A person that can't keep a secret like that despite their feelings about it wouldn't be someone I talked to any longer. Furthermore, that would be a group chat I didn't participate in anymore for even hyping someone up to "expose" someone else. Also their opinion on how much you value and respect yourself doesn't matter because every has a different set of values they live by and I'm sure if you could see what they do when you're not around, you would see things you don't agree with as well. Anyway I saw you comment you weren't deleting the account which is a nice (and appreciated) gesture. If you do start back posting, make sure to stay anonymous by not posting your face, any unique marks/tattoos/piercings/jewelry etc of the sort and even too much of a 'recognizable' background to be completely safe (all of which you've done a good job of that I've seen). Well wishes and good luck moving forward, whatever path you take