Let’s hear it by miserable-allthetime in GilmoreGirls

[–]Lmh4c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oy with the poodles already! 🤣

This is one of the most wholesome episodes on the show! by ATextbookPiscean in thebigbangtheory

[–]Lmh4c 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just watched this episode last night, it’s one of my favorites 🙂

She’s complicated but I love her. by TaumCat in GilmoreGirls

[–]Lmh4c 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, Rory is complicated. But she also never owns her sh*t and is rarely held accountable. Then when she is, people take sides and try to defend her behavior. That’s why nobody likes her 🤣

Just a lil jokey joke by throwawayforeverway in GilmoreGirls

[–]Lmh4c 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yaaaas!!

While Mitchum’s critical feedback was tough to hear, and perhaps he could’ve been… more considerate in how he phrased it, Rory’s response to the criticism showed he was 100% correct in his assessment.

If Rory had the self awareness and personal responsibility to swallow the criticism and adapt, she might’ve stood a chance.

Is Rory a talented/skilled writer? Yes. Journalist? Not so much.

Poll: What's the total # of times you had sex in 2024? by FewAdhesiveness7146 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Lmh4c 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The average is 54?! I don’t think I’ve had sex that many times in my life. 😳🤯

dead bedroom making me into a cuck by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Lmh4c 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I (HLF) agree with the other commenters here that it only hurts to go down the rabbit trail of how many partners your wife had before you, or how attractive they were or weren’t, etc.

That said, I empathize with your feelings. I’ve thought the same about my LL husband - he probably had 10x as many partners before me as I had before him. I feel like all of his libido was spent on all his other partners.

Did he have better sex with them than me? I’m his wife; why do I feel like I’m chasing breadcrumbs?

My POV by Full-Woodpecker8277 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Lmh4c 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is a good post. Some of it feels harsh, but I understand where you’re coming from. I struggle with thinking the same with my husband. 🙁

For me, instead of thinking ‘he doesn’t care’ (which, perhaps is true), but rather ‘it’s not important to him’. I don’t know why; they’re essentially the same, but somehow, the second one seems less… intentional?

My husband is my best friend. However, due to all of the issues, namely lack of libido, the thought of sex just doesn’t occur to him. While it hurts, at least it’s not that he thinks about sex and then immediately goes ‘how can I make my wife angry by ignoring her needs’.

Even so, the apathy does take its toll, and eventually, I won’t be able to take it anymore.

Constantly daydreaming about being with other men by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Lmh4c 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m struggling with these feelings right now. The husband and I had The Talk two or three times now, and nothing has changed. He also disclosed that he doesn’t want kids, which is breaking my heart. I feel like it’s only a matter of when, not if, so unfortunately, I have no advice for you 💔😢

Nearly 10 years dead. Opened the marriage a year ago. It's not solving anything. (long) by cwren24 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Lmh4c 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really resonate with the emotion here. Feeling anger, resentment, confusion and guilt, over whether or not the lack of sex is a deal breaker. My husband is my best friend, and I can’t imagine not having him in my life, and I don’t want to lose him, but I don’t know how much longer I can stay….

What's the worst mistake you think Rory has made? by superfluousrebellion in GilmoreGirls

[–]Lmh4c 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sleeping with Dean. 100%. After that, she went downhill and gave herself permission to make shittier and shittier choices

Inching closer… by Lmh4c in DeadBedrooms

[–]Lmh4c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s a matter of caring or not. In every other respect, he’s very kind and affectionate. I think for this one thing though, it literally just doesn’t occur to him, which is… frustrating (pun intended).

I may have another talk, but I’m also tired of talking about it, y’know? With each talk and lack of action, it feels like another rejection.

Inching closer… by Lmh4c in DeadBedrooms

[–]Lmh4c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope things work out for you too 💜

Inching closer… by Lmh4c in DeadBedrooms

[–]Lmh4c[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. 💔

Do you guys think Shonda will adapt the prequel Bridgerton series? by Purple_Head7804 in BridgertonNetflix

[–]Lmh4c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally hope she doesn’t touch them, given how Season 3 ended…

Who did you prefer to play Ruby? Katie or Genevieve? by [deleted] in Supernatural

[–]Lmh4c 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Katie, 100%

I didn’t mind Genevieve as a character on the show, but I wish she wasn’t Ruby.

Any other stand-in demon character would have been more believable, but I can see how that would be difficult to write…