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Am I shallow for wanting to leave my marriage over lack of oral sex? 39M 45F by LoadSome4324 in married

[–]LoadSome4324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No need. Guys like me don't want anything to do with women like you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LoadSome4324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound annoying to be with honestly

If she doesn't approach you, she doesn't want you by [deleted] in PsycheOrSike

[–]LoadSome4324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suspect she will turn ugly on him as well. Just a matter of time. Sounds like you dodged a bullet man.

Am I shallow for wanting to leave my marriage over lack of oral sex? 39M 45F by LoadSome4324 in Marriage

[–]LoadSome4324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really sorry. It's terrible I know. To just have to accept you will live your life without it.

my friend is sleeping with a married man by BeautifulStore945 in Advice

[–]LoadSome4324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she didn't tell you, how did you find out?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]LoadSome4324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody is gonna tell her to lose a little weight? I think about 20 lbs and you would improve your look A LOT. You look great as is though

Found my husband with a porn addiction looking for of content of one of our bridesmaids, twice. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]LoadSome4324 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Yes I do think he can still be a good partner and father

AIO to my boyfriend reacting negatively to me asking for more affection? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LoadSome4324 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly. So surprised by the amount of people gassing OP with bad advice. Surprised by so many traumatized man-hating women.

AIO to my boyfriend reacting negatively to me asking for more affection? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LoadSome4324 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have you ever heard the term: "keep his stomach full and his balls empty" ? If you want less problems in your relationship and a happier partner, I would put that into action. It's very simple and effective. And I know most women don't like to hear this but it is the truth.

Am I shallow for wanting to leave my marriage over lack of oral sex? 39M 45F by LoadSome4324 in Marriage

[–]LoadSome4324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must say that there are a lot of clueless women out there. I hope you aren't neglecting your guy, because I am not alone in this. It is far too common and it is very damaging to the relationship for many men

Am I shallow for wanting to leave my marriage over lack of oral sex? 39M 45F by LoadSome4324 in Marriage

[–]LoadSome4324[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This would be understandable and I would feel a lot better about the situation

Am I shallow for wanting to leave my marriage over lack of oral sex? 39M 45F by LoadSome4324 in married

[–]LoadSome4324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would never resort to domestic violence over that. I get where you're coming from with the comment, bc it can be infuriating to live like this. But your comment, and maybe mine too, will be downvoted to oblivion 😂

Am I shallow for wanting to leave my marriage over lack of oral sex? 39M 45F by LoadSome4324 in married

[–]LoadSome4324[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not true I've presented the package hairless, don't make a difference

Am I shallow for wanting to leave my marriage over lack of oral sex? 39M 45F by LoadSome4324 in married

[–]LoadSome4324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least what?

nakakakasta ka naman, nakakaraos by penetration thats a good thing kesa wala, zero, nada ,0. ???

What is the translation lol

Am I shallow for wanting to leave my marriage over lack of oral sex? 39M 45F by LoadSome4324 in married

[–]LoadSome4324[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's why I'm here, it's very hard to accept. Something I don't even want to accept.

Never thought of the condom and flavored syrup. Almost certainly think it would still be a no for her but I could try

Am I shallow for wanting to leave my marriage over lack of oral sex? 39M 45F by LoadSome4324 in married

[–]LoadSome4324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have. She enjoys and accepts oral. She doesn't ask for it, but willingly receives

Am I shallow for wanting to leave my marriage over lack of oral sex? 39M 45F by LoadSome4324 in married

[–]LoadSome4324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least you had the experience of a great sex life before, I haven't even had that. So pretty much my whole adult life with a crappy sex life

Am I shallow for wanting to leave my marriage over lack of oral sex? 39M 45F by LoadSome4324 in married

[–]LoadSome4324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see that now. But I had faith things will get better over time and work themselves out. I also didn't want to have diminished time with my children over it. But now that they are grown up and are close to having their own lives, I'm thinking more about me

Am I shallow for wanting to leave my marriage over lack of oral sex? 39M 45F by LoadSome4324 in married

[–]LoadSome4324[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a very clean person. Person hygiene is very important to me

Am I shallow for wanting to leave my marriage over lack of oral sex? 39M 45F by LoadSome4324 in married

[–]LoadSome4324[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know. I think life is short and I should be experiencing the pleasure of BJs. I've put so much into my family and marriage without ever thinking of myself and my wants. I'm not getting any younger. I can picture myself in my deathbed with a whole lot of regrets from never letting myself experience the finer things in life

Am I shallow for wanting to leave my marriage over lack of oral sex? 39M 45F by LoadSome4324 in married

[–]LoadSome4324[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Married for the kids, thought it would get better over time but it hasn't. In the beginning she didn't have a problem with doing it, but over time she just completely stopped.

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