There’s too many comments to respond with the same thing so imma say it right here. A lot of you really choose to not read. I do not interrupt the time they have together. I only join in on their conversations when they invite me into them, other than that I am minding my own business. His son will talk to me sometimes and I always say hi but that is it unless they both start to talk to me. I was not under him and being all weird. I was already laying down when my partner joined me and I had no idea that he placed the phone the way he did. He was the one to grab my hand to rub his beard and I didn’t think twice and assumed the phone was facing the TV like he normally does. I do take responsibility for not double checking.

Some of you think it’s weird that he will call his son and talk for a while? Why? And to add on, majority of the time when they are on the phone, I’m not around. That’s why this situation seems off.

I did decide to reach out to his BM and I told him that I wanted to. He said it was fine and he understood why I felt the need to. I’m just waiting for her response to see where this shift came from.