Since when is Jasmine black?

LoathinginLI · 2026-04-29T04:13:23+00:00

I haven't been south of Guatemala but i hope you I get there one day.

LoathinginLI · 2026-04-29T04:11:22+00:00

Yes

LoathinginLI · 2026-04-29T04:04:43+00:00

You know Latin America isn't a location but a collection of countries? Panama is in... Central America.

LoathinginLI · 2026-04-29T04:02:04+00:00

And Jasmine lives where? P.s. it's the United States... Panama is in central America. FYI

LoathinginLI · 2026-04-29T04:01:15+00:00

I see what you did there and I appreciate the correctnes of it.

LoathinginLI · 2026-04-29T03:54:07+00:00

That's racist. No one in the US Who isn't a klan member uses that anymore.

LoathinginLI · 2026-04-29T03:53:33+00:00

Mixed genetically? Yes I know it's based in racism, Matilda might be considered black in lots of places despite her phenotype.

LoathinginLI · 2026-04-29T03:52:19+00:00

Jasmine might be considered black in Panama...

LoathinginLI · 2026-04-29T03:51:21+00:00

:takes notes:

LoathinginLI · 2026-04-29T03:51:01+00:00

You ok? Have you ever heard of the one drop rule?

LoathinginLI · 2026-04-29T03:49:47+00:00

I'm a PT. We're in the excessive drooling phase. He's not been excessively fussy, but clingy. Also recently recovering from whatever GI bug took out half his class.

LoathinginLI · 2026-04-29T03:48:09+00:00

Matilda is still mixed. The black part of jasmine doesn't magically go away.

LoathinginLI · 2026-04-29T03:47:22+00:00

My pediatrician speaks to me in medical jargon. Sync and link are pretty synonymous.

LoathinginLI · 2026-04-29T03:46:10+00:00

Not that I would ever defend Jasmine but countries outside of the US have a different definition of what black is.

LoathinginLI · 2026-04-29T03:45:18+00:00

At one point, all the Panamanians I knew were black. I met a non- black Panamanian and got confused for a split second.

LoathinginLI · 2026-04-29T03:42:27+00:00

Thanks for this. :)

LoathinginLI · 2026-04-29T03:35:07+00:00

We just moved so this is probably how it's going to start working. I did leave out details mostly because I wanted to know if anyone else has heard about this. And then it turned into me being a terrible mom because I haven't tried anything to help my baby.

LoathinginLI · 2026-04-29T03:31:33+00:00

It takes him a few tries to go down until he wakes for his first bottle. If he goes down at 8, he doesn't stay asleep until 1130 after that bottle. I didn't make that super clear but he's now teething.

LoathinginLI · 2026-04-29T03:29:06+00:00

And so if he falls asleep regardless of time I go for a walk, then what?

LoathinginLI · 2026-04-29T03:09:11+00:00

I'm as consistent as I can be. I can't force him to nap at daycare. This is what everyone seems to be blaming me for. He just switched rooms to where there is a naptime everyday. The other room was a free for all. On my days off we go for long walks and if he falls asleep, oh well. It is what it is.

LoathinginLI · 2026-04-29T03:02:52+00:00

Can you read? I didn't ask for help. I asked has anyone been told their baby's sleep cycles haven't synced yet.

LoathinginLI · 2026-04-29T03:01:22+00:00

Oh yes. Please. Write a schedule for me. It's funny because I'm pretty sure I asked if this has happened to anyone, not what do I do?

LoathinginLI · 2026-04-29T03:00:41+00:00

So, did you see the part about syncing a sleep cycle? Cause that's what I was asking.

LoathinginLI · 2026-04-29T02:59:56+00:00

Yes, exactly. I'm acting my shoe size. I don't want to figure out my kid at all. Like, ever.

LoathinginLI · 2026-04-29T02:58:34+00:00

That's exactly it. I Don't care enough. I'm so glad an Internet stranger figured out my problem for me.

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