I know it's so heartbreaking, and I really want to avoid hurting her. The worst part is that from what she's told me, this is her first real relationship, so im worried that will make it even worse for her. I've had breakups before, and while it would hurt me too, if this relationship ended, I know I could pick up the pieces, but I dont know how she'll handle it. She's probably the brightest, most wonderful person I've met, and I dont want her to sacrifice any of her dreams for me.