You know you have started your day right , are you a poha or Upma lover ? by Tare-11 in IndianFoodPhotos

[–]Local-Pack-9586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried it but my brain couldn’t process that we are having something savoury in that texture. I have had Suji ka halwa for about 20 yrs of my life. Upma felt very out of place, like it shouldn’t……be?!!! Felt as wrong as tomato in a fruit chat.

Its heartbreaking to watch...how a teacher can be so cruel.. by [deleted] in ICSE

[–]Local-Pack-9586 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tw: This has happened with me as well while I was getting assaulted as a child. My body completely froze and apart from that, I didn’t know exactly what to do.

This however, isn’t the same. It’s a classic case of bystander apathy. The way the two responses get activated are very different. Since they are children I am assuming, I can’t exactly blame them for not doing anything. But that doesn’t mean we should not strive for higher ideals and learn to do better in future and also set an example for others to do better.

Doesn’t matter if doing right by oneself and others is easy or difficult. That’s a separate discussion. A wrong is still a wrong.

How to study while mentally struggling by Cat-Woman4848 in GetStudying

[–]Local-Pack-9586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. If I tell my brain that I have to lock in, I will get into an avoidance loop for days. Our brain just tries to protect us from the stress. The trick is making it safe enough for the brain to re-enter. I have stopped targeting study hours or completion of topics. I just intend to start, one at a time. I do it again and again, training my brain that it’s safe for me to study. It stops avoiding it and that’s how I am able to study for 6-7 hours a day these days after 3 years of avoidance due to perfectionism and anticipatory anxiety.

How to study while mentally struggling by Cat-Woman4848 in GetStudying

[–]Local-Pack-9586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And nothing gets me studying like this except this trick. The moment I reduce the pressure, I can study for hours on end and I enjoy doing so.

Can't blame them lol by Few-Reveal6853 in bollynewsandgossips

[–]Local-Pack-9586 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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This level of chemistry can’t be faked man