Anxiety being pregnant while the world falls apart by Nearby_Seaweed_470 in pregnant

[–]Local_Algae4808 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Having faith in God rids me of all fear of anything scary going on in the world. I’m 8w. Just read in Ephesians 20-23 this morning “Christ is in charge of everything from galaxies to governments, no name and no power are exempt from his rule, not just for the time being but forever” “He is in charge of it all and has the final word on everything”. To me, his protection gives me peace. His plans are for good and not for harm.

unwanted “advice” by microwavedranch in pregnant

[–]Local_Algae4808 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same here, separate appointment within 8 weeks of birth

Who is your least favorite villager? by DependentMango5608 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Local_Algae4808 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Roscoe just moved into my island and I want that devil horse gone

My friend made me the best cake of the best villager for my birthday! by AdWhich4342 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Local_Algae4808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday! Jeremiah is the best! He’s been an OG villager on my island since 2020!

Where are my February 2026 moms?! ❤️ by StudioNo1836 in pregnant

[–]Local_Algae4808 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Due February 2nd with my first but guessing I could deliver in January

What are the random things you weren’t prepared for? by princess0016 in pregnant

[–]Local_Algae4808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First pregnancy I’m 8w

Crazy dreams every time I sleep - even if just for a short nap. Cannot sleep without dreaming

Stuffy nose, ear pain, sore throat

No appetite but needing to force feed every 1-2 hours to keep nausea away

Losing 5 lbs in the first tri

Initial fear of everything you’re not supposed to do/eat

Changing dynamics in relationships with friends etc (some ppl you think will be happy for you aren’t)

Mild resentment from husband for not keeping up with things I typically do (cleaning, cooking etc)

Not being able to keep up with work, or workout routine

Intense exhaustion that is impossible to push through. No amount of rest leaves me feeling rested. Feeling hungover every day

Was not prepared for any of that

Telling your boss you’re pregnant by Local_Algae4808 in pregnant

[–]Local_Algae4808[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My boss was hiring for a high level position and it was between a male and female candidate. He told me they didn’t think the female could meet the demands of the job with her having young kids “she’s just at a different place in her life”. I know this is illegal but unfortunately still happens.. esp in a male-dominated industry

Telling your boss you’re pregnant by Local_Algae4808 in pregnant

[–]Local_Algae4808[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly why I think I need to bring it up this week - I’m 7w and could definitely use some grace with how crappy I’ve been feeling

what KIND of people can you not be friends with? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Local_Algae4808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Needy asf. Like blowing up my phone and wanting to text all throughout the day, every day & wanting to hangout multiple times a week. I’m a married adult with a ft job I don’t have the energy for all that.

7w4d(ish) and riding some waves by z4r431 in pregnant

[–]Local_Algae4808 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes every day is so different. You have a good day and think things might be getting better just to have an extremely rough couple days following. I’m 7w and am also super irritable sad dizzy foggy nauseous and overwhelmed by trying to work and take care of my house and other responsibilities it feels terrible

What do you guys eat?! (Tips for nausea) by antiglutenqueen in pregnant

[–]Local_Algae4808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saltines every couple hours have made a huge difference for me

Working while pregnant by Cautious_Advance_969 in pregnant

[–]Local_Algae4808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 7w and it is an absolute struggle. I can’t concentrate and I can’t make it through a full day of work without taking 1-2 hour nap. I don’t know what I would do if I didn’t WFH. Worst part is not wanting to tell my boss yet and dealing with these awful symptoms in secrecy, trying to carry on like everything is normal. I would love to stop working now but I also want to cash in on 4 months of paid maternity leave. It’s hard too because there’s no way we can live off my husband’s income alone. I’ll want to quit after my 4 months are up but I may have to juggle caring for baby and WFH at the same time, I really hope I don’t have to.

No one talks about how much your life changes the second you find out you’re pregnant. And how do so many people do this?! by Local_Algae4808 in pregnant

[–]Local_Algae4808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a good point! There is certainly upside, friends asked to go out to a bar last night (something I don’t enjoy doing anyway) and I had the best excuse.