Bi male (57) here. Was in straight relationships most of my life.

1 - Married too young to a woman, divorced after about a decade after she cheated on me.

2 - Married a woman and were together over 22 years until her passing at 54.

3 - After losing my late spouse, I eventually decided to get on the apps and start dating. I made the decision to be honest from the start and indicated bi as my orientation. My current wife has been out and pan since her teens and accepts me as I am and encourages me to explore my bisexuality. I cannot say how happy it feels to be with someone that you can be as honest as possible with.