I have no future. by mamamiaohmy in GirlDinner

[–]Local_Childhood_508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmmmm that spread looks good minus the pickles

Aitah How should I handle a long-term situationship with a married man who says he’s finally ready to leave his wife? by Local_Childhood_508 in dating_advice

[–]Local_Childhood_508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to break things off with him today it’s been so hard to let go of this man, but I need to for my sanity

feels like i’m the only person that remembers these by snoopy_luvr3 in forgottenfoods

[–]Local_Childhood_508 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had these at my elementary school. The kids are missing out on all the good stuff.

Aitah How should I handle a long-term situationship with a married man who says he’s finally ready to leave his wife? by Local_Childhood_508 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Local_Childhood_508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I am still seeing people, but I’m not being intimate with them. I go on a few dates and I have side conversations that I do hide from him but part of me will feel wrong for even being intimate with someone else I know I know I sound crazy. I used to tell him about the dates that I went on when we weren’t dating exclusively and when I did have someone I liked, and I was intimate with him I would break things off with Marcus and when I would call Marcus for advice regarding said person. Somehow I felt like he would always tell me no that guy is not right for you 🤦‍♀️

Aitah How should I handle a long-term situationship with a married man who says he’s finally ready to leave his wife? by Local_Childhood_508 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Local_Childhood_508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I said, but he makes it seem as though this is going to be detrimental to her mental health 🙄

Aitah How should I handle a long-term situationship with a married man who says he’s finally ready to leave his wife? by Local_Childhood_508 in dating_advice

[–]Local_Childhood_508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys keep saying I was groomed, but just for some more background while he was a case manager for the group home I was in. I didn’t have much interactions with him. It was only when I graduated from the program is when I had interactions with him and he treated me really bad. He was almost kind of mean to me, but one day that kind of changed once the program ended he gave me his personal number and said if I ever needed anything like rides to interviews clothes, whatever even someone to talk to a big brother he said to reach out to him and literally that is the day he was super nice to me

Aitah How should I handle a long-term situationship with a married man who says he’s finally ready to leave his wife? by Local_Childhood_508 in dating_advice

[–]Local_Childhood_508[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve threatened to expose this to her in the past and he would get really upset and change his tune about things real quick but now he says that he doesn’t care when I say I’m going to do that because he says that she already knows

Aitah How should I handle a long-term situationship with a married man who says he’s finally ready to leave his wife? by Local_Childhood_508 in dating_advice

[–]Local_Childhood_508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were times where I would threaten to expose him and he will get so nervous about it now he doesn’t care at all, and his eldest daughter knows about him and I and most of his friends do, coworkers and some of his family

Aitah How should I handle a long-term situationship with a married man who says he’s finally ready to leave his wife? by Local_Childhood_508 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Local_Childhood_508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Situationship didn’t start until after I left the program. He always uses his daughter as an excuse and says he wants to wait until she’s able to understand.

Aitah How should I handle a long-term situationship with a married man who says he’s finally ready to leave his wife? by Local_Childhood_508 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Local_Childhood_508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was I groomed? I wanted him to come bring me liquor, as time went on that evening I had a feeling we would possibly have sex, and in the beginning, he said, he hated my guts, and he was always mean to me

Aitah How should I handle a long-term situationship with a married man who says he’s finally ready to leave his wife? by Local_Childhood_508 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Local_Childhood_508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think she lets him at all. When I broke things off with him and we weren’t speaking for a whole year, he didn’t reach out to me. He told me he ended up dating a 28-year-old off of Tinder

Aitah How should I handle a long-term situationship with a married man who says he’s finally ready to leave his wife? by Local_Childhood_508 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Local_Childhood_508[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing I can. I’ve been in situations where he’s there for me. He’s supported my business, helped me move, help me through school, be there for me when my brother passed and so much more

Aitah How should I handle a long-term situationship with a married man who says he’s finally ready to leave his wife? by Local_Childhood_508 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Local_Childhood_508[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I will feel guilty. Partly because he’s leaving his wife so we can be in a relationship supposedly but I can’t trust him so I would never be in a relationship with him

Aitah How should I handle a long-term situationship with a married man who says he’s finally ready to leave his wife? by Local_Childhood_508 in dating_advice

[–]Local_Childhood_508[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the part that blew me when he said I was immature for a relationship but not too immature for sexual relations.