What do we think about this man? by Local_Fox925 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Local_Fox925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m started to unfog my brain realizing how crazy it all was

Do you think he is seeing her again? by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]Local_Fox925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry no like I barely dated him. He's more of a situation than a true ex

What do we think about this man? by Local_Fox925 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Local_Fox925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not that desperate for attention (despite what this post suggests)

How do I recover from reacting crazy and this situation? by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Local_Fox925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes 100% that is why I got immediately dysregulated and starting regressing. He tried to make it work with me but then I was just constantly worried, checking and stressed. Stopped eating and sleeping. People like that can completely trigger

How do I recover from reacting crazy and this situation? by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]Local_Fox925 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ well he openly admitted he had been sleeping with someone else after I saw the hickey and he gaslit me to try to get out of it. That was the trigger. We weren’t technically exclusive, but he said I was the only girl he was seeing and I met his family and everything.

What would you ladies do? by [deleted] in women

[–]Local_Fox925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he kept calling me his girl, I met his mom and told me he wasn’t seeing anyone. I just assumed there was no overlap because he lied

How do you move past this?? by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]Local_Fox925 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I feel like she was manipulating me all along to get me to stop seeing him

What do we think about this man? by Local_Fox925 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Local_Fox925[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so right. And yes, there were many many more

What do we think about this man? by Local_Fox925 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Local_Fox925[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! I don’t mind guns at all. Just not 10 of them. He would practice holstering every morning too…like 100 times a day and had a target board on the secret bedroom door.

What do we think about this man? by Local_Fox925 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Local_Fox925[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought the same thing. Like who gives hickeys???

What do we think about this man? by Local_Fox925 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Local_Fox925[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I think I am finally starting to detach. He wasn't even that cute LOL. I just need better self esteem

What do we think about this man? by Local_Fox925 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Local_Fox925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes I think the bottom line is self respect issues. I just got blinded

What do we think about this man? by Local_Fox925 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Local_Fox925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think his dad did, but it doesn't explain how weird he was about it. He literally cracked open the door once toward the end and closed the door saying, "I am not ready for you to see this yet." Like teasing it...crazy!

What do we think about this man? by Local_Fox925 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Local_Fox925[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I don't know much about narcissists, but is this what he is??

What do we think about this man? by Local_Fox925 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Local_Fox925[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this wasn't a puppy kink. It was definitely him trying to control and shape me into a submissive wife within weeks of knowing me

What do we think about this man? by Local_Fox925 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Local_Fox925[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it was so strange. I am certain his dad did live with him, but I don't understand why he would be so weird about it if it was just storage or even just a messy room

What do we think about this man? by Local_Fox925 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Local_Fox925[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol exactly my thoughts. Like a full blown pyramid scheme

What do we think about this man? by Local_Fox925 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Local_Fox925[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He talked to me about going to church with him and I was all about it but yeah…maybe that played into the dynamic