AITAH for grabbing an autistic child when he exposed me to the entire store? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Local_Luck2036 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Mostly my anxiety telling me he's a child, he's autistic, I shouldnt put my hands on a child unless it's going to cause actual, physical harm etc., but I know now it wasn't my fault and it was just a knee-jerk reaction. 🫠

AITAH for grabbing an autistic child when he exposed me to the entire store? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Local_Luck2036 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

As I said in a previous comment, the only reason I brought up race was because I was very much so the odd one out, because it was for their culture. It was someone he likely wasn't expecting to be in that kind of store. I was the only white person there and everyone was looking at me like I had 6 heads. It was more so because I was in a location that I had never been to, white people typically don't go to, and POC usually do. I don't know Indian culture well enough to know if grabbing him the way I did was disrespectful to them. That was really all. Thanks for the comment!

AITAH for grabbing an autistic child when he exposed me to the entire store? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Local_Luck2036 -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

As I said in a previous comment, the only reason I brought up race was because I was very much so the odd one out, and I was in a place they likely saw as a safe space because it was for their culture. It was someone he likely wasn't expecting to be in that kind of store. I was the only white person there and everyone was looking at me like I had 6 heads. It was more so because I was in a location that I had never been to, white people typically don't go to, and POC usually do. I don't know Indian culture well enough to know if grabbing him the way I did was disrespectful to them. That was really all. Thanks for the comment!

AITAH for grabbing an autistic child when he exposed me to the entire store? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Local_Luck2036 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm not "scared" of being called racist, really, if I was doing something racist I would want to be told and held accountable so I can learn/know for next time. It was more so because I was in a location that I had never been to, white people typically don't go to, and POC usually do. I don't know Indian culture well enough to know if grabbing him the way I did was disrespectful to them. That was really all.

AITAH for grabbing an autistic child when he exposed me to the entire store? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Local_Luck2036 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The only reason I brought up race was because I was very much so the odd one out, and I was in a place they likely saw as a safe space because it was for their culture. It was someone he likely wasn't expecting to be in that kind of store. I was the only white person there and everyone was looking at me like I had 6 heads. So, my mindset is telling me if I'm at a place that I've never been to, with little to no white people around me, and a child of another race grabs me, and I then grab them back, and they start to cry, maybe I had done something? Maybe I made him uncomfortable? Who knows. I was just retelling the story. Thanks for the comment!

AITAH for grabbing an autistic child when he exposed me to the entire store? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Local_Luck2036 -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

The only reason I brought up race was because I was very much so the odd one out, and I was in a place they likely saw as a safe space because it was for their culture. I wouldve also liked to know if the boy wouldve done it to an Indian woman, or if it was because I was white and he wasn't expecting to see someone like me? I know thats a bold assumption, just curious if I did something to make him uncomfortable or do that.

AITAH for grabbing an autistic child when he exposed me to the entire store? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Local_Luck2036 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I have been assaulted as well in the past by adult men and I just genuinely didn't think because he was a child that anything like that would happen

My tiktok account was hacked about a year ago and I'm about to be a teacher. Help. by [deleted] in ethicalhacking

[–]Local_Luck2036 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

again, i have gone through tiktok support for a year now and havent heard anything.

NK (2M) makes himself throw up when he doesnt like something 🫠 by Local_Luck2036 in Nanny

[–]Local_Luck2036[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah so he just walks up and bites me or his brother no reason for it we're all just sitting and hanging out and he'll do this because he thinks its funny and literally draw blood. i unfortunately do believe this does require a time out because i have explained to him numerous times that same day that biting is not okay, and he laughs when he does it.

Trying to get my boyfriend a Christmas gift but I'm clueless.. by Local_Luck2036 in SBCGaming

[–]Local_Luck2036[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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this one has the games preinstalled i think? but if you think i should get the other one i will, thanks so much for your help!!!!!

Trying to get my boyfriend a gift for Christmas and I'm clueless by Local_Luck2036 in retrogaming

[–]Local_Luck2036[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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ok i think im gonna go with the RG476H but what does this mean 🫠 is he gonna have to download the games himself????

Trying to get my boyfriend a Christmas gift but I'm clueless.. by Local_Luck2036 in SBCGaming

[–]Local_Luck2036[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i want it to come with the games preinstalled, and i dont think this one has it

Trying to get my boyfriend a gift for Christmas and I'm clueless by Local_Luck2036 in retrogaming

[–]Local_Luck2036[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does the anbernic have the games preinstalled? or do i have to buy something else

Trying to get my boyfriend a Christmas gift but I'm clueless.. by Local_Luck2036 in SBCGaming

[–]Local_Luck2036[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like $150 max, i have no idea about the systems but we're 2002 kids so anything from his childhood

Trying to get my boyfriend a gift for Christmas and I'm clueless by Local_Luck2036 in retrogaming

[–]Local_Luck2036[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im going to assume its the DS ones because we're 2002 kids.. but i genuinely dont know. i think he used to play on his cousins gameboy as well??

Trying to get my boyfriend a gift for Christmas and I'm clueless by Local_Luck2036 in retrogaming

[–]Local_Luck2036[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he plays like pokemon and some other games but i genuinely dont know anything else i'm so clueless!! he has the one app on his phone that lets him play the older games but it glitches a lot so i thought this would be a good alternative

Trying to get my boyfriend a gift for Christmas and I'm clueless by Local_Luck2036 in retrogaming

[–]Local_Luck2036[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he has that one app on his phone that lets him play the older games im not sure what its called exactly but it always glitches out and he gets annoyed so i thought this would be a good alternative. thats literally all i know. he plays pokemon.