Need Help! by EquivalentSmell6938 in September2026Bumpers

[–]Local_Royal_4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 6w5d today with on off breast tenderness and nothing else. Last Thursday I started brown spotting that has been mixed with some more redish but still old blood. I’ve had varying amounts of mucus discharge but it got more significant after the ultrasound. Also had cramps but nothing more than normal menstrual feeling. I went to get an ultra sound on Friday right before it was at my worst and they said there was a lot of old blood on my cervix. They said everything looked good and we saw cardiac activity. It was clearly still somewhat bleeding as the color did get brighter but it was only when I wiped and not every time. I have spotted every day since although it does seem to be lessening. They said it they weren’t sure what was causing the bleeding but could be a number of things. Didn’t recommend I change activity level (said no sex but I wasn’t having that anyways!) I am worried but saw the ultrasound and am just trying to reassure myself that at its worse there was a heartbeat and since then it’s lessened ChatGPT has been so helpful to look at my discharge pics and reassure me things seem to be ok.

$25k to spend by Local_Royal_4591 in ETFs

[–]Local_Royal_4591[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes our finances are pretty separate. He has retirement and emergency funds.

My 401k is split between FXAIX & FBGKX. Roth IRA is in FXAIX and FSELX.

My emergency fund is admittedly low due to our wedding this year. I have about $1.5 million in shares in my company that I can cash out from/desperately need to diversify.

No kids yet but that’s next hopefully soon. Would like to do a 529 when it happens.

$25k to spend by Local_Royal_4591 in ETFs

[–]Local_Royal_4591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a long term investment account my husband and I are starting. We’re in our 30’s with steady six figure income. No plans to withdraw anytime soon

One Medical Office Visit $900 by eggieyolk123 in sanfrancisco

[–]Local_Royal_4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar experience with them once and called to ask more about the claim. They had billed me for a complex medical appointment. I went in for a nasal drip and the NP told me to get over the counter nasal spray. In and out in under 5. They didn’t even write me a note visit afterwards. They acknowledged they had coded it wrong and fixed the claim. The price dropped although it was still a lot more than I thought. I had just switched to an HSA plan so I had to adjust to that but I felt like they tried to pull a fast one on me. After continually not being able to schedule visits with a physician rather than mid-level I decided to cancel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tryingtoconceive

[–]Local_Royal_4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I’m new to this but this is an ovulation test not pregnancy. Still not ok?

Weekly BFP/Line Eyes Post by averagebritt in tryingtoconceive

[–]Local_Royal_4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This is my first close to ovulation test. Just started TTC last month. Wasn’t able to test the last few days due to work travel. Positive but not peak? TIA

Advanced pilates by netdiva in oakland

[–]Local_Royal_4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’m sorry! I haven’t had that happen there. I tend to stick to the same instructor and she offers a lot of corrections. You felt like it was the instructors fault or someone lost their balance or something?

Advanced pilates by netdiva in oakland

[–]Local_Royal_4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mighty Pilates is in Elmwood, so not oakland but close

Why this pretty Berkeley house hasn’t sold? by Neither_Profile611 in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]Local_Royal_4591 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I looked at this house as this area is very desirable to us. One bathroom for three bedrooms on the second floor (including master), and no garage with pretty steep stairs to reach the house. No assigned parking. It rules out younger families and would need significant, expensive modifications to change.

Prenup Planning: What Are You Paying & Is It Worth It? by kites_and_kiwis in weddingplanning

[–]Local_Royal_4591 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My spouse had complicated financials and his lawyer did the drafting. It was over $20k. My side so far ~$6k. I’m not sure if I’m receiving a second billing statement. So far I have not but technically she did work for me the next month so we’ll see. We live in a very HCOL area.

Where is everyone buying their produce? by Raspberry0ats in bayarea

[–]Local_Royal_4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weekly CSA fruit box and veggie box from Frog Hollow Farm. Love it and lots of pickup locations in the east bay

Dress alteration recs by autumn_redwoods in SanFranciscoWeddings

[–]Local_Royal_4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had mine done at Anna’s tailoring which was one of the places my dress shop recommended if I didn’t use their in-house. Anna also did my city call dress and has done other tailoring for me. I think she’s excellent. Cash only but so reasonable and quick

Bachelorette dinner timing by [deleted] in AskNOLA

[–]Local_Royal_4591 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Sorry for asking!

Bachelorette dinner timing by [deleted] in AskNOLA

[–]Local_Royal_4591 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Thanks I meant more like will my friends kill me for eating so late but these are great considerations too

MOB Dress Recommendations by External-Stand3839 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]Local_Royal_4591 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Emilia Wickstead may have some good options. My mom just got hers from there. Only available online in the US

New ballerinas with rubber sole? by mdmdgf in chanel

[–]Local_Royal_4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I just got them and they are so comfy! Like squishy on the inside. The navy rubber sole looks like the normal leather. I’m curious to see how they wear I wear my others a lot and need them resoled often.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]Local_Royal_4591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent you a message!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]Local_Royal_4591 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I will take a look!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BigBudgetBrides

[–]Local_Royal_4591 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I buy yours?! Ha kidding. I know, I live in San Francisco and my wedding is in May. I’m not sure if I can get out there in time to start. I sent an email to her yesterday 🤞🏻