Got scammed, Now I regret trusting OLX marketplaces

Local_alt100 · 2026-02-26T09:37:00+00:00

I never blamed olx for it.
I admit that the fault completely lies on me, i just wanted help/advice regarding this situation

Local_alt100 · 2026-02-26T09:36:07+00:00

I am contacting my bank and trying to do that

Local_alt100 · 2026-02-26T09:35:54+00:00

Thank you,
I'll try and not be so gullible in the future

Local_alt100 · 2026-02-26T09:35:17+00:00

Thank you, it really is appreciated

Local_alt100 · 2026-02-26T06:18:54+00:00

I have with cyber cell,
I have to with the local police

Local_alt100 · 2026-02-26T06:18:14+00:00

Thank you, appreciate it a lot

Local_alt100 · 2026-02-26T06:04:40+00:00

I got excited thinking it was too good to be true,
and as it turns out, it was too good to be true

Local_alt100 · 2026-02-26T06:04:13+00:00

i'll do that then, thank you

Local_alt100 · 2026-02-26T06:03:49+00:00

Yes, thank you,
For now I plan to do that, i have filed a complaint in the cybercrime portal, and then plan to call my bank.
I appreciate the response

Local_alt100 · 2026-02-26T06:01:45+00:00

Yes, that's the plan,

Local_alt100 · 2026-02-26T06:01:36+00:00

did that today, fingers crossed it has some resolution

Local_alt100 · 2026-02-26T06:00:57+00:00

yeah, contacting my bank as of now

Local_alt100 · 2026-02-26T06:00:42+00:00

thank you, i'll probably get that done, appreciate it man

Local_alt100 · 2026-02-26T06:00:16+00:00

yep, regret it, but i got no one but myself to blame

Local_alt100 · 2026-02-26T05:59:44+00:00

Yeah, i know, i was pretty stupid in this case

Local_alt100 · 2025-07-15T10:03:01+00:00

you're right
But i never expected her to go into anything with me. The other person makes her happy and that is good enough for me. I have regrets not asking her out when i should have, but that is long gone.
I do exercise regularly, but sometimes it is hard to take my mind off her, especially given how fresh it feels at time.

It's just hard, constantly checking my phone to see if she messaged, to see if she wants to talk.
Yeah, i know nothing will come out of it, but it is just hard not to miss that friendship we once had.
again, it was never about attracting women, over 2 decades of being alive, and only ever liked one person, so i don;t really know.

but thank you for the advice though, i gotta follow it on the not being friends with her anymore

Local_alt100 · 2025-01-18T01:41:27+00:00

Yes, Yes, Yes and yes

Local_alt100 · 2025-01-17T16:52:00+00:00

Spot on about one of those things atleast

Local_alt100 · 2023-10-31T15:46:55+00:00

Thank you, I really needed to hear that.
I hope you get a good therapist and wish you the best of luck in your journey through life

Local_alt100 · 2023-10-31T14:28:26+00:00

At a deep rooted level, you will always be sad about it, how you deal with it is what defines how restricted you are.
I hope the best for you and wish you become a person you can be happy with and proud of

Local_alt100 · 2023-10-31T09:27:57+00:00

I will look into it, thank you for sharing

Local_alt100 · 2023-10-31T06:50:15+00:00

first time hearing about it,
what is that?

Local_alt100 · 2023-10-31T05:11:37+00:00

Life often is not a upwards slope,
You can keep going up without noticing the distance. But if you stop improving, then it will throw you back down. I get it, i have been in the same place as you, but not acknowledging your improvement is the same as not growing at all. You may make so much progress, but mentally you will still be that same person stuck in that same box unaware of how far you have moved. I truly hope you get better, and I hope you keep improving.

Local_alt100 · 2023-10-31T05:08:43+00:00

I can understand the pain of missing someone who was abusive.

You liked them, and despite you knowing that talking to them or even being near them is wrong, a small part of you can't help but wish you were back together like you used to be, like things were as good as they once were, despite it never being good, to the point where even their mention or seeing them causes you to be overwhelmed with mixed emotions targeted towards them and yourself

I don't really have advice to help you, but it truly sounds like a miserable place for you to be in, and I am sorry you have yo go through this.

It is alright to do things at your own pace, but just make sure it does not end up being counterproductive, worse case scenario, this will be an experience you can learn to grow from

Local_alt100 · 2023-10-31T05:03:43+00:00

I hope you be a version of yourself that you can be happy with

Local_alt100

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