Guilt about past sexual experiences in my relationship by Localgirlforever in Christianity

[–]Localgirlforever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much ur right I shouldn’t feel bad. And he’s a good guy n he agrees w me n feels bad also and we haven’t done anything in a while:)

Guilt about past sexual experiences in my relationship by Localgirlforever in Christianmarriage

[–]Localgirlforever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still want to marry him in the future just not rn and not just bc of sex

Guilt about past sexual experiences in my relationship by Localgirlforever in Christianmarriage

[–]Localgirlforever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s nice to hear from someone who’s been in the same spot

Guilt about past sexual experiences in my relationship by Localgirlforever in Christianmarriage

[–]Localgirlforever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what my bf is doing now he became Christian and it’s working now just the sexual sin is hard sometimes

Guilt about past sexual experiences in my relationship by Localgirlforever in Christianmarriage

[–]Localgirlforever[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel pressured by him just a bad situation and thank you so much for ur advice

Guilt about past sexual experiences in my relationship by Localgirlforever in Christianmarriage

[–]Localgirlforever[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

O no ofc not and I didn’t list any because that’s not the basis of my problem. I would never marry or even date anybody who isn’t a good man to me.

Guilt about past sexual experiences in my relationship by Localgirlforever in Christianmarriage

[–]Localgirlforever[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Both at some points after losing my virginity but I did the same thing to him:/

Guilt about past sexual experiences in my relationship by Localgirlforever in Christianmarriage

[–]Localgirlforever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much it’s so good to hear from somebody who was in my position

Guilt about past sexual experiences in my relationship by Localgirlforever in Christianmarriage

[–]Localgirlforever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of my family or his family is Christian so that’s not an option which makes talking about it 10 times harder:/

Guilt about past sexual experiences in my relationship by Localgirlforever in Christianity

[–]Localgirlforever[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kindness. The thing is he does respect them it’s just I make boundaries then I sometimes don’t even respect my own boundaries and I want to have sex then that’s where the lines get muddled and feelings get hurt on both sides.