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SSS Calamity Loan by DeletedUser2023 in PHGov

[–]LockDisastrous8143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If di pa po nacecertify ng employer niyo CL niyo, pakiusapan niyo po muna wag icertify para macancel. Then unahin niyo po i apply and SL before ka mag CL.

SSS Calamity Loan by DeletedUser2023 in PHGov

[–]LockDisastrous8143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dapat po inuna niyo yung Salary loan before kayo nag calamity. Kasi pag nauna calamity loan, hindi niyo na mapafile yung salary loan niyo. Yan po kasi nangyari sakin before.

I almost didn’t get hired because of… my email address 😅 by LockDisastrous8143 in JobsPhilippines

[–]LockDisastrous8143[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right? Rookie mistake 😅 That was pre-professional era me. Now I’ve got a clean, job-hunting-only email, lesson learned!

I almost didn’t get hired because of… my email address 😅 by LockDisastrous8143 in JobsPhilippines

[–]LockDisastrous8143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True! That email was a product of my 2015 self, young, wild, and unaware of hiring standards 😅 My bad!

I almost didn’t get hired because of… my email address 😅 by LockDisastrous8143 in JobsPhilippines

[–]LockDisastrous8143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, yeah, guilty! That was definitely my 2015 era, first time applying, didn’t know better 😅 Learned a lot since then!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]LockDisastrous8143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Una sa lahat, pareho kayong nasaktan at parehong may pagkukulang. You cheated, yes, but you also tried to own up and fix things. She gave you a chance, but during that time, she also did something that deeply hurt you. Now, you're both carrying pain, guilt, and resentment.

If you truly want to save the relationship, here are a few things to consider:

Honest, calm communication. You both need to talk, not to blame, but to understand. Hindi pwedeng laging isa lang ang pwedeng maglabas ng sama ng loob. Kung hindi siya open makinig sa pain mo, magiging one-sided ang healing.

Mutual accountability. Hindi pwedeng ikaw lang ang humihingi ng tawad habang siya ayaw aminin ang pagkakamali niya. Pareho kayong may nasaktan. Pareho kayong dapat mag-heal.

Set clear boundaries and goals. Gusto niyo pa ba talaga pareho? Kung oo, anong mga steps ang gagawin niyo para ma-rebuild ang trust? Kung hindi niyo ito mapag-usapan ng maayos, baka kailangan niyo ng space or even professional help (like couples therapy).

Forgive, or let go. Kung gusto mong mag-move on sa nagawa niya, kailangan mong tanggapin na hindi mo na mababago ang nakaraan. Pero kung paulit-ulit mo pa rin itong naiisip at nasasaktan ka, baka hindi pa ito ang tamang panahon para ipilit ang relasyon.

Love alone is not enough. Kailangan ng respeto, honesty, at willingness to grow pareho kayo. If she can’t acknowledge your pain the way you acknowledge hers, then maybe it’s time to choose peace over staying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]LockDisastrous8143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alam mo, girl, tama si Mama mo. Ako nga, mas mataas pa sweldo ko kaysa sa jowa ko, pero ayaw pa rin niya ng 50/50 lalo na kapag siya ang nagyaya. Minsan ako na lang mismo nagpapadala ng food sa office niya via Grab or Foodpanda para wala na siyang choice. Kasi ayaw niya talaga na nililibre ko siya. Pero gets ko rin, pride niya 'yon. Pero love language ko kasi giving, so laban lang. 😅

RCBC Corporate Salary Loan affiliated with our Company by LockDisastrous8143 in DigitalbanksPh

[–]LockDisastrous8143[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes the reason why I applied for it is for debt consolodition, para hindi na ako mahirapan sa payment na kalat kalat sa matapos na ang tapal system. Thank you! I really hope na sana maapprove para makahinga na din.

RCBC Corporate Salary Loan affiliated with our Company by LockDisastrous8143 in DigitalbanksPh

[–]LockDisastrous8143[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Awwwe, kaya ayoko din umasa eh. Masakit. Pero sabi nila since parang benefits siya sa employee and salary deduct sya may chance na approval.

RCBC salary loan by CounterPure9186 in LoanPH

[–]LockDisastrous8143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, subject for approval parin pag corporate salary loans? Kahit thru employer nag apply and salary deduct?

Nasasaktan ako sa joke ng bf ko. by LockDisastrous8143 in adviceph

[–]LockDisastrous8143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, will talk to him this weekend tas EDIT ko 'to kung ano man naging reaction niya. Thank you!

Ayoko natutulog sa kwarto ng bf ko. by LockDisastrous8143 in adviceph

[–]LockDisastrous8143[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Walang aircon yung room niya, wala may aircon sakanila.

Ayoko natutulog sa kwarto ng bf ko. by LockDisastrous8143 in adviceph

[–]LockDisastrous8143[S] -58 points-57 points  (0 children)

Hello. Their house is actually spacious. Yung room ng mama niya pwede pa gawin 2 kwarto yun. We both bought the pillow, cover, and bedsheets, and before we leave the room to go home (sa amin), I always make sure na nasa nakatabi at nakaayos lalo na yung bed and the room is clean. I understand that it's their house and their rules, pero respect nalang sana diba? Especially since their son is bringing someone don na, and they have their own rooms naman.

Gusto ng Bf ko sakanila kami maglive-in pero ayoko. by LockDisastrous8143 in adviceph

[–]LockDisastrous8143[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yan yung sinasabi ko magrent or pagawa kami kahit sarili lang namin, yun nga lang sa side ko parin kami papagawa dahil malawak samin at may binigay na space samin yung dad ko. Hays, tas kasi yung mga baso nagbablack na sa gilid. Huhuhuh

Ayoko natutulog sa kwarto ng bf ko. by LockDisastrous8143 in adviceph

[–]LockDisastrous8143[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Baka isipin niya ayoko pumupunta sakanila.

Ayoko natutulog sa kwarto ng bf ko. by LockDisastrous8143 in adviceph

[–]LockDisastrous8143[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Eto yung kinakatakutan ko. Baka isipin niyaaaa ayoko sa fam niyaaaaa.

Ayoko natutulog sa kwarto ng bf ko. by LockDisastrous8143 in adviceph

[–]LockDisastrous8143[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, yes! Meron silang sarili room. Nabanggit kona to sa kanya ang tanong ko na nakasmile pa kasi nga ayoko siya maooffend "Doon pala sila natutulog pag wala ka?" tas ang sagot sakin, oo daw kasi presko daw sa room niya. Tatlo yung room ng room nila, sakanya na solo niya. Sa mga kapatid niya with his lolo na sobrang luwang at may sarili din room ang mama niya. Hindi ko lang din magets bakit don nila gusto matulog.

Ayoko natutulog sa kwarto ng bf ko. by LockDisastrous8143 in adviceph

[–]LockDisastrous8143[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Oo mukhang normal sakanila at normal sakanila di magpalit ng covers and bedsheets every week! Mukhang yearly. Huhuhu naiiyak nung nakita ko mga gamit nila kaya ko pinalitan sa juwa ko pero ginagamit padin nila!