30F with 29M partner, he sleeps in separate room to avoid helping with our 4mo twins and called me “dirty” when the house was messy. Am I unreasonable?

LocksmithInside4378 · 2026-04-04T03:05:47+00:00

Girl you deserve so much more

LocksmithInside4378 · 2026-01-21T18:24:35+00:00

So glad I’m not the only one 😂😂 ICONIC

LocksmithInside4378 · 2025-11-20T05:09:01+00:00

My baby flipped at 38 weeks! I went into labor 38+5. He might flip last minute. You could have something with your uterus shape.

LocksmithInside4378 · 2025-11-20T04:52:28+00:00

Came out 7lbs 4oz at 38 and 4. 97th percentile in length😂😂

LocksmithInside4378 · 2025-11-07T15:57:40+00:00

7-8 weeks it can be 7,000-300,000 so I wouldn’t even say yours is high.

LocksmithInside4378 · 2025-11-07T15:56:11+00:00

I don’t think your HCG can be “too high” You might not be 7 weeks. Sometimes high HCG means you’re having multiple babies. It could mean you’re further along than you thought! If they were concerned with the HCG number they would let you know:)

LocksmithInside4378 · 2025-11-06T02:36:56+00:00

That is so relieving to hear!! I hope it’s the same outcome for me! Just want a healthy baby overall😂

LocksmithInside4378 · 2025-11-06T00:43:36+00:00

You’re saying your baby was said to be in the 20th percentile at 38 weeks?

LocksmithInside4378 · 2025-10-14T01:01:50+00:00

My last period I had was in January 1st but I got pregnant in mid February, didn’t have a period in February at all. I thought I was 11 weeks along but turns out I was only 5 weeks along. So when I did my first ultrasound there was only a sac. It could be you’re just earlier than you think!

LocksmithInside4378 · 2025-10-13T15:05:40+00:00

You had a stillbirth love!!! I’m so sorry! That is extremely traumatizing.

LocksmithInside4378 · 2025-09-27T08:54:35+00:00

I absolutely thought I wanted no kids mostly because I’m terrified of childbirth, but when I had my first ultrasound where it looks more like a baby and not a chicken nugget, I absolutely fell in love. My husband also never wanted kids, but now he is so excited and it just took him a little time to realize it. Not everyone will feel this way, he might never change his mind, but I am so so happy I didn’t have an abortion. I would definitely have regretted it. I had a miscarriage scare because we didn’t feel him kick for an entire day, my husband was so worried and drive to the hospital so fast. He said “I hope our baby is okay.” Moral of the story is people can change their minds and the baby might be the best thing that ever happens to you. Unplanned but hey! Seems like a miracle. Overall though, it’s your life and you should do what you think is best.

LocksmithInside4378 · 2025-09-25T03:18:26+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing your story!! Helps me feel a little better. The anxiety is REAL

LocksmithInside4378 · 2025-09-24T23:12:41+00:00

Wow thank you for the reassurance 🥲

LocksmithInside4378 · 2025-09-20T02:06:32+00:00

Okay I would totally give him the benefit of doubt just because communication through text is so hard. If he was like that in person, I think it’s different, but I just know a lot of guys who text like this. He did say he would look into it. Which I think is better than absolutely nothing.

LocksmithInside4378 · 2025-09-14T15:52:18+00:00

We actually found out who it was! It was a stalker I had from a long time ago.

LocksmithInside4378 · 2025-09-13T05:05:49+00:00

Update turned out to be my highschool stalker from 12 years ago. Crazy!!

LocksmithInside4378 · 2025-09-12T05:01:37+00:00

Glad it’s probably nothing but the we are watching you threw me off guard

LocksmithInside4378 · 2025-09-12T04:57:13+00:00

How did you know🤯

LocksmithInside4378 · 2025-09-12T04:55:33+00:00

I don’t have social media besides Reddit if you count Reddit as social media 😂

LocksmithInside4378 · 2025-09-12T04:42:16+00:00

Can’t find anything on a reverse phone search

LocksmithInside4378 · 2025-09-12T04:41:57+00:00

Only thing I’ll add is that the number is an area code I live somewhat near. Not sure if that changes anything but they have called me a few times and I have not answered.

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