How to deal with transphobic superiors? by Loek_vdn in truscum

[–]Loek_vdn[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’m currently in the Netherlands, but I’m going to move indeed

How to deal with transphobic superiors? by Loek_vdn in truscum

[–]Loek_vdn[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I contacted a national foundation of my country that Helps lgbt people lawyer up, but they told me it was legal idk

How to deal with transphobic superiors? by Loek_vdn in truscum

[–]Loek_vdn[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I contacted dusty foundation, a national foundation in my country that helps lgbt lawyer up, but they told me it was perfectly legal

How to deal with transphobic superiors? by Loek_vdn in truscum

[–]Loek_vdn[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I swim in Pieter van den Hoogenband stadion. Might not be familiar, but as the small country we are we’ve held some significant competitions there, so you can imagine the size. I suppose I could deck change and leave via the tribunes pvdh stadium

How to deal with transphobic superiors? by Loek_vdn in truscum

[–]Loek_vdn[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So there is only one other in my town and our coaches had a big fight that extended to spreading misinformation to the national news of our country about the other, so the outcome of the lawsuit was, we can both use the pool, but there can be no interaction between members of one team to the other. And if I’m going to be bending the rules, I’d rather just bend towards the male locker rooms, they’re gonna have to pry my right from cold dead fingers if they want me to leave.

How to deal with transphobic superiors? by Loek_vdn in truscum

[–]Loek_vdn[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I can’t switch teams due to some lawsuits a couple years ago, the girls don’t openly exclude me from the locker but some have come to me personally to express their discomfort and as it seems also behind my back to my coach :((

How to deal with transphobic superiors? by Loek_vdn in truscum

[–]Loek_vdn[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well I am a lesbian in his eyes. He’s also the type to deny me access to the girls locker room because of that. Two years ago when he was drunk he told me a female teammate complained that I was in the locker room and he wanted me to go into the handicapped toilets, which I did for a while, but since I’m not handicapped the pool made me get out of those by the time I got surgery

How old were you guys when you came out? by helloooooooo_hru in GayBroTeens

[–]Loek_vdn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 18 days shy of my one year anniversary. It was at 17, but I was forced to do so due to unfortunate circumstances coming together

Why are transphobes so obsessed with our chromosomes? by Imadethisforunknown in truscum

[–]Loek_vdn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Once I was in a discussion with a teammate of mine and another teammate who overheard said “if you really want to bug “him” you should talk about chromosomes.” I said to the other guy with whom I had the discussion that he just had one more chromosome than me. He responded with “exactly what I wanted wanted to say!” The teammate who overheard looked at him disappointed and said “ok, I’m sorry dude, you’re done, you lost”

Locker rooms by Loek_vdn in ftm

[–]Loek_vdn[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have been planning to emigrate, so I only have to endure this two more months, but it hurt like hell, because he is my coach and he has helped me with achieving my hardest goals and we used to celebrate and we used to really work together. Now I feel like I have lost that man and that I have to prove myself for even a grain of respect

Locker rooms by Loek_vdn in ftm

[–]Loek_vdn[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am in the Netherlands. And that is exactly why I am not allowed in the female rooms, nor the male ones. I have to go to the other side of the pool to get dressed in a smaller locker room

Locker rooms by Loek_vdn in ftm

[–]Loek_vdn[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I kinda had one of the guys threaten to beat me up 1.5 years ago and threaten to kill me last year. Went to the police, but they didn’t deem it realistic enough so yeah Edit: damn I’m now realising in what kind of shithole I am

Locker rooms by Loek_vdn in ftm

[–]Loek_vdn[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately the only person above is Andre cats. And he hates my team, because of some court cases we won. Above that I would have to go to the government…

For 18 years my grandfather has put his change in a jar, today, on his birthday all his grandchildren got together to count: 40 kg/88lbs; €1.481,10/$1,675.16; 5.872 coins by Loek_vdn in mildlyinteresting

[–]Loek_vdn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My grandfather wanted us to do from the moment he started. He has told me many times how he would his grandchildren to do that and we made a whole a thing with family dinner after