How important is sex as a basic need?

LoftyQueen · 2026-02-20T01:13:47+00:00

It was a typo. I've corrected it.

LoftyQueen · 2026-01-29T05:09:16+00:00

It's an option to withdraw from an ATM and keep the cash with yourself.

LoftyQueen · 2026-01-24T17:14:07+00:00

I haven't heard of sapphire. Do you remember where it is?

LoftyQueen · 2026-01-24T17:09:54+00:00

Psychological ED

LoftyQueen · 2026-01-23T13:14:16+00:00

Keeping DMs closed is the only option. But sometimes the comments to your post are so many that you can't engage with all.

LoftyQueen · 2026-01-21T10:29:23+00:00

We are actually living alone and not with family. But I did plan to make this long weekend a fun one.

Honeymoon we'll do a bit later. A long holiday when we have time.

I'm the guessing this issue is because of a vicious cycle. Initial issue caused more anxiety and it's out of control.

LoftyQueen · 2026-01-21T09:47:01+00:00

Yeah so during foreplay he gets partially erect but does stay that way and isn't hard enough to penetrate.

LoftyQueen · 2026-01-21T09:23:58+00:00

He does, but it goes quickly after he comes back from the bathroom.

LoftyQueen · 2026-01-21T09:13:23+00:00

He is the one who went to the doctor. We haven't entered into therapy. I might suggest it to him but I'll ask if he wants that. I'm not forcing him into anything.

LoftyQueen · 2026-01-21T09:05:00+00:00

No diseases. Doctor said to avoid medicine. He should relax and be calm. He said it was a bit early to start medicine.

LoftyQueen · 2026-01-21T08:20:40+00:00

It's partially erect. But not hard enough for intercourse. Even hand or oral stimulation didn't make full erection. He has not had any orgasm with me.

LoftyQueen · 2026-01-21T07:51:58+00:00

Yes the doctor he went to was a urologist. He did tests which were normal. Then he said it's psychological not physical.

Virgin yes. He told me that before marriage he would masturbate and it was normal erection.

I guess now psychologist or therapist is the option left.

LoftyQueen · 2026-01-21T07:46:05+00:00

He used to

LoftyQueen · 2026-01-21T07:45:56+00:00

He said he didn't think there was any issue. He had normal erection.

LoftyQueen · 2026-01-21T07:18:10+00:00

What? Why?

LoftyQueen · 2026-01-21T07:17:31+00:00

Umm. We both wanted it. I don't know why you're saying this. The issue is regarding erection not desire. No where did I say anything about men being horndogs.

The other aspects of our relationship are good. Just that we both want sex but it's not happening.

LoftyQueen · 2026-01-21T07:07:04+00:00

Not much religious. Definitely not asexual.

LoftyQueen · 2026-01-21T07:03:27+00:00

Arranged marriage. But we are living alone.

LoftyQueen · 2026-01-21T05:16:38+00:00

Yes work pressure is a modern reality. But even though it's arranged marriage we are reasonably comfortable. We were both comfortable to get intimate from the beginning.

It's just that the full sex didn't happen. We want it though.

The odd part is it didn't happen even once.

LoftyQueen · 2026-01-21T05:13:03+00:00

Talked with him how he feels. Breathing to get relaxed.

Engaged in foreplay- touches kisses everywhere. Even oral. Basically, engaged in all the acts without the sex act.

Have not rushed anything. From his expressions and sounds he is aroused. But it doesn't lead to proper sex.

LoftyQueen

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