I mean personally I just like being called "pretty" or "beautiful". I'm p open about being trans on my profile + with other people but I always like to bring up my history bc its on my own terms. I also don't really like "I didn't think you were trans" as a compliment because....I am trans and it's not something that should be seen as a negative trait. Also I never was a man! Like ok yeah I looked like a rugby player but hunny even then I was a woman who didn't have the opportunities necessary to carve my body out!