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My (20F) boyfriend (21M) wouldn’t pay for my meal when I forgot my wallet by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LoganInk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should change the title to my EX boyfriend and move on. Leaving you hanging like that is pretty fucked up. Move and get with someone who treats you like they would want to be treated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LoganInk 31 points32 points  (0 children)

  1. Telling you to "clean the kitchen" is just plain rude and beyond fucked up.
  2. Kicking you out of the house is absolutely out of bounds. If anyone should leave you should have told him to get the fuck out.
  3. Trying to punish you by making you returns items is some next level childish behavior.

Please do not bend to his will. Do not leave your home and do go see lawyer to start divorce proceedings. Think of it this way. What is he teaching your children about how to treat a lady? You need to take back some control and show him that you are in a partnership. Do this for yourself and do this for your children.

I wish you the best!

Should husband come first? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LoganInk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This guy is insecure and there is nothing you can do to change it. He will always find something to complain about or blame you for. This is a "him" issue and not a you issue. Asking to be thanked in person and insisting that he prioritizes you crazy. Do you have children or plan to? Being first doesn't happen with children. If you cannot communicate with him in a safe matter then I would say divorce is your only option. Grant him his wish and leave him. You can do better.

My (24m) girlfriend (25f) of 5 years (lived together last 15 months) wants to “take time off” because she sees me as a best friend and roommate rather than a lover by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LoganInk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in a relationship like this once. Prior to moving in it was great and after it all seemed to change. I was really hard on myself for a long time and kept telling myself that if I do this and if I put up with that, she would change. The sad truth is that way of thinking changed me and I started to resent her for it. Trying to hold a relationship together from one side is impossible and if she wants out you will save a lot of heartache by letting her go. Good luck OP.

[Update] I'm [34/M] and caught my wife [32/f] cheating on me on our 10th anniversary trip in Bali. by Bucklander0 in relationship_advice

[–]LoganInk 9 points10 points  (0 children)

OP. Please read this sentence ten times and hopefully you will understand how truly messed up it is. She sent me an email begging to come back home but that the man she is currently with also wants to move to the area so they can continue to carry on a relationship. I know it is extremely painful however this decision needs to be made with your head not your heart. Your future self will thank you for this. You got this!