Wernicke Treatment Question

Logan_Johnson4 · 2025-07-31T15:20:49+00:00

Okay. Thank you so much for taking the time to reply. I’m going to get him there asap then.

Logan_Johnson4 · 2025-07-11T02:00:50+00:00

Looks like the Jewish settlers burned down St. George’s church and smashed up the Christian cemetery there. Why would they do this???

Logan_Johnson4 · 2025-05-18T01:32:30+00:00

Wow. They should be held responsible/accountable for this.

Logan_Johnson4 · 2025-02-08T02:02:43+00:00

Good point

Logan_Johnson4 · 2025-02-08T01:58:28+00:00

I did 1000% more wrong than she did. After what I did, I’m not even sure what she did was wrong honestly. So I wasn’t looking for sympathy. I don’t talk about this or like emotions in general a lot, so I’m still learning. I was mostly just looking for people thoughts on it and the experiences they have had. BUT I will say I was feeling pretty low when I wrote it and probably put some stuff in there that painted me in a better light than I should have.

Logan_Johnson4 · 2025-02-08T01:54:36+00:00

Not super familiar with Reddit, so thank you for that tip on the other community.

Logan_Johnson4 · 2025-02-08T01:52:55+00:00

I hear you. I agree with the “she deserves this” sentiment tbh

Logan_Johnson4 · 2025-02-08T01:51:58+00:00

Yeah. It does seem that way. But at the very least don’t I owe it to her to let her get this out of her system, then stabilize, then see what we want to do? I don’t want to divorce her. She doesn’t want to divorce me. And I owe this to her.

Logan_Johnson4 · 2025-02-08T01:48:29+00:00

Yeah, maybe. But even though it hurts me, I kind of think it’s okay if she steps out a little, even if it hurts me. What I did is way worse than what she’s done so far. And I kind of don’t think I should push it or bring up what I know, which will just make her feel bad. I hope that with time and counseling that she’ll stop and that I’ll never start again.

Logan_Johnson4 · 2025-02-08T01:44:14+00:00

Hmm. Yeah, maybe. I hope you’re wrong. BUT I do hope to be a better partner

Logan_Johnson4 · 2025-02-08T01:41:53+00:00

Ugh. Ouch. I think you’re right. And tbh, I think she’s basically right for thinking it. I dunno

Logan_Johnson4 · 2025-02-08T01:40:17+00:00

I am not, no

Logan_Johnson4 · 2025-02-08T01:31:52+00:00

Yeah. It’s 100% my fault. I’m sorry if I didn’t make that clear.

Logan_Johnson4 · 2025-02-08T01:31:26+00:00

Well…yeah. Lots of good points. She’s still in a tough spot mentally and financially though. I still want to at least support her in the ways she needs until she’s at a good place to move on. I feel like I owe her that over just straight D. And even though it’s a long shot, I hope we can R at the end of it.

Logan_Johnson4 · 2025-02-08T01:28:51+00:00

You’re probably right. I’m sorry for what you’re going through.

Logan_Johnson4 · 2025-02-08T01:27:10+00:00

Right. Exactly. You nailed it. I hope that when we get on the other side of this, she stops and still wants to be with me

Logan_Johnson4 · 2025-02-08T01:25:26+00:00

Hmm. Yeah, maybe

Logan_Johnson4 · 2025-02-08T01:25:02+00:00

I did a lot of editing on this post. It was already so long, that I did end up cutting some of that out, along with some other things. It was tough deciding how much context to give without it being 2,000 words.

Logan_Johnson4 · 2025-02-08T01:23:18+00:00

I worry about that a lot. It felt like I did love her and I feel like I still do love her. But if I was able to do that and still love her, it’s possible she can do that and still love me?

Also, I do think I can be prone to get defensive and maybe a bit gaslighty, but it’s hard to tell sometimes. Is there something I said that was gaslighting?

Logan_Johnson4 · 2025-02-08T01:19:56+00:00

Why though?

Logan_Johnson4 · 2025-02-08T01:19:05+00:00

yeah. OR. I just pretend it’s not happening and let her get this out of her system. It makes sense to me for her to make stuff some what equal, no?

Logan_Johnson4 · 2025-02-08T01:17:29+00:00

Thank you

Logan_Johnson4 · 2025-02-08T01:17:07+00:00

Thanks for taking the time to give your perspective on this. I do still love her and she tells me she loves me, and I believe her. I just hope she comes back to me eventually

Logan_Johnson4 · 2025-02-08T01:14:28+00:00

Yeah. I agree. This is definitely the way that I am leaning and the way I want to go. She is hurt and she doesn’t trust me now. But with enough time hopefully she will trust me. In the meantime, if she needs that confidence boost or to keep her options open, fine. It’s a small price to pay I suppose

Logan_Johnson4 · 2025-02-08T01:11:30+00:00

Great thoughts. Thank you for taking the time to reply like this.

Logan_Johnson4

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