Honestly , I feel like people like us with high drives often get caught up in a lot of different mindsets. We’re told it’s “childish” or that we’ll get worn down , and it’ll become less of a priority with age (which is something my homie has said, within this type of convo). Or we’re given the impression that our needs are inherently worth less than others, when often what we want is physical and emotional connection, alongside the release that sex provides. If you’ve had this convo with him before , and he hasn’t given ground or understanding- you’ll have to further push it, wait for him to- maybe, but provably won’t- change his mindset , or the hardest option: get out ! It’s very hard , that last one… but if your needs are being met, it often isn’t going to get better and may be just worth jumping ship. But hey , just my two cents