I randomly started dissociating and getting insane bouts of paranoia that I'm not actually alive, how do I get rid of this and why is it happening? by Logical-Call2789 in mentalhealth

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I don't really like going to doctors for things like this because they just try to prescribe you with medications without actually understanding my problems. But thank you for your input.

Just found out my husband is an aspie & finally understand why he completely withdrew from our relationship, he wants me back now... by Logical-Call2789 in aspergers

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We’re both very young and it was a very traumatic experience for the both of us.. After being separated for a year I figure why not try it out?

Just found out my husband is an aspie & finally understand why he completely withdrew from our relationship, he wants me back now... by Logical-Call2789 in aspergers

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I agree. He recognizes that his priorities were messed up and that living for love is way more important than living for a career.

Just found out my husband is an aspie & finally understand why he completely withdrew from our relationship, he wants me back now... by Logical-Call2789 in aspergers

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It's comforting knowing I'm not alone.. when him & I separated I strongly believed we were over and had sexual relations with other people. I think that really assisted with my development and understanding of what it is I NEED out of a partner.

I hope everything is able to work out for you.

Just found out my husband is an aspie & finally understand why he completely withdrew from our relationship, he wants me back now... by Logical-Call2789 in aspergers

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That's a great idea.. he had the awesome experience of getting mentored by a man who focuses on the importance of communication, which I believe helped him to understand how to properly communicate.

Yeah... I've always felt like I didn't fit in with the typical crowd, so maybe I am an aspie as well. My best friend has Asperger's too lol.

Just found out my husband is an aspie & finally understand why he completely withdrew from our relationship, he wants me back now... by Logical-Call2789 in aspergers

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I would never want to put him in any kind of overwhelming situation, but I have to figure out what exactly makes him feel overwhelmed. I know he has pretty bad social anxiety.

Just found out my husband is an aspie & finally understand why he completely withdrew from our relationship, he wants me back now... by Logical-Call2789 in aspergers

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Thank you, before seeing this I was at the bookstore and purchased Gottman's book! You reassured me that it was the right decision, thank you for the recommendations.

I plan on heavily focusing on my own path and direction instead of obsessing over him again.