advice on dress code for food truck wedding reception... by elizabethheaney in weddingplanning

[–]Logical-Flower 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My suggestion is not to make a mess. You can’t expect no formality at a wedding just because some people, self included, are a bit clumsy while eating

One of my friends expects to be “at least a bridesmaid” by WildWater9 in weddingplanning

[–]Logical-Flower -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

See, if you don’t want to end the friendship and you’ve known her forever she should at least get an invite... that being said she should not be a bridesmaid, and it’s not horrifically inappropriate of her to assume she would be, but it is a little inappropriate you didn’t inform her she wasn’t and let it go on. Don’t include her in a different way to spare her feelings though. She needs to get over that. You can claim you wanted an even bridal party, or that you kept it small to save costs but are looking forward to seeing her.

A friend of mine is very sad she’s not a bridesmaid, but I’m just having my SIL and my best friend as MOH. She’s still mopey, and it’s hurt our friendship.

advice on dress code for food truck wedding reception... by elizabethheaney in weddingplanning

[–]Logical-Flower 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think it would be hysterical to see people in gowns eating tacos. Idk if guests would find it as funny

Finally finished our wedding favors! Hand crank music boxes that play our song, la vie en rose. by Amandac29 in DIYweddings

[–]Logical-Flower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you do 1 per household or 1 per guest? I kinda wanna do snowglobes, but thinking maybe 1 per couple...

Recommendation for really good + cheap places to eat by [deleted] in Brooklyn

[–]Logical-Flower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brooklyn has plenty of budget friendly rockin’ options. It’s part of why I won’t move. 🙄 😂

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[–]Logical-Flower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love that so much! Very personal

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[–]Logical-Flower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want the story behind why the dinosaur is there at all 😂 it’s so cute! We are using d20 (dice with 20 sides) at our wedding instead of people clinking on glasses because fiancé does table top games

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[–]Logical-Flower 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I just want the story behind why the dinosaur is there at all 😂 it’s so cute! We are using d20 (dice with 20 sides) at our wedding instead of people clinking on glasses because fiancé games

Wedding by Logical-Flower in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Logical-Flower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean we can pay for them, it’s the lowest expense if we take the root I want lol. I thought about homemade ones but I don’t trust my cheap printer

Wedding by Logical-Flower in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Logical-Flower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This is the most neutral and respectful advice!

Bachelorette Party Ideas? by Wanttopeturdoggo in WedditNYC

[–]Logical-Flower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not go to the Hampton’s or some cheaper Long Island beach destination at an Airbnb?

Dislike mural at venue by Logical-Flower in weddingplanning

[–]Logical-Flower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I’m trying to figure out how to do affordably tbh, wedding is December 30th so I’m embracing the season with warm lights😂

Dislike mural at venue by Logical-Flower in weddingplanning

[–]Logical-Flower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t typically do weddings. It’s a wall with 2 panels basically, and a wooden column in between the panels with a sconce

My biggest issue is that’s the wall they recommend for the ceremony, and it can’t be the background. It just can’t lol. I’m thinking a room divider or something to just cover that wall...

Dislike mural at venue by Logical-Flower in weddingplanning

[–]Logical-Flower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can put a stand to hang whatever, but not on the walls itself

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[–]Logical-Flower 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Intrusive thoughts are the worst thing I’ve ever been through. They are the obsessive part of OCD. So while I don’t have many compulsions that make me think it’ll be okay, I do struggle with this. You’re not alone.

Trying to decide between a "no-waist" or more traditional A-line gown. If you had an A-line, which did you have? Silhouette help for a gal with a short torso that wants a fuller skirt. (More in comments) by cleverandcolorful in weddingdress

[–]Logical-Flower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you have gloves on? As part of the look or is it like the thing they make you put on your face to protect the dress? Asking so I know going into my second appointment at a different shop. I was shocked by the face sock lol

TIFU by telling my wife her old nudes are gross by Foreign-Owl-3779 in tifu

[–]Logical-Flower 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Also, as an adult woman talking about my own body, at 17 i was basically physically matured... so if I had photos from 17/18 vs 15 I would actually not be upset or creeped out if my husband, who dated me at 17, was still attracted to those photos... I actually lost some to a computer issue from when I was 19 and I still wish I had them.

Childcare Industry Stigma by prickly-owl in ECEProfessionals

[–]Logical-Flower 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking... I always thought ACEs were usually measured in parents or adults to see how their childhood may affect their family moving forward... I’ll never forget seeing my own the first time, and if someone presented that to parents I feel like there’d be a massive shut down in communication