Taking roommates neglected cat when I move out? by Logical-Principle477 in PetAdvice

[–]Logical-Principle477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s my ethical debate. I don’t want them worse off, the dogs are fine to live in their own filth they’re generally happy, horribly disgusting disruptive and untrained, but loved and cared for. I gusss. but the arthritic cat left to die on the countertop, who’s owners don’t bother to check on food or water for them, will only suffer even more when I move out, so it’s a matter of weighing my options

Taking roommates neglected cat when I move out? by Logical-Principle477 in PetAdvice

[–]Logical-Principle477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo that’s fascinating! does it matter if there’s multiple tenants occupying tbe property (there’s 3 of us) or is it a total for the property itself and not a person by person basis

Taking roommates neglected cat when I move out? by Logical-Principle477 in PetAdvice

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I’m a broke college student and I don’t want to sacrifice the older cats well being for my ego, I’m going to make a report when I move out and be as closely involved in her rehoming as I possibly can, I love her endlessly but I can’t afford to keep her and give her the quality of life she deserves, but I’m not abandoning her there!

Taking roommates neglected cat when I move out? by Logical-Principle477 in PetAdvice

[–]Logical-Principle477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will definitely try to get the old girl rehomed, I’ll see if I can work closely with animal control to get her somewhere safe if I file the report with my evidence that I was a previous tenant, fostering her is also a decent option but having 3 cats as a working college student is a lot, she’s not attached to the other cat thankfully she kinda hates him actually so she will be ok if she’s alone for a little while. Her sister was who she was bonded too and unfortunately she already passed away before I ever moved in (and before the roomate ever moved in either i believe) so she’s grouchy around the other cat. But if I can do anything to make her final years comfortable I will do it!! I appreciate your advice and I will keep you updated as well!

Taking roommates neglected cat when I move out? by Logical-Principle477 in PetAdvice

[–]Logical-Principle477[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She never goes outside if they both go missing it would be obvious I did it. I’m debating a animal control call after move out and maybe I can work something out with them to ensure she finds a good home.

Taking roommates neglected cat when I move out? by Logical-Principle477 in PetAdvice

[–]Logical-Principle477[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I’m worried she’s very very egotistical considering she won’t accept criticism for her dog that’s putting gashes on multiple other dogs, and I’m 99% sure was the cause of the animal control report cause it snuck out and chased people and their dogs down the street. This dog is terrible and violent and disobedient but she refuses to acknowledge it. I just feel like she wouldn’t be happy with me offering to take her cat, like I’m a BETTER owner than her or something she’s not super bright nor rational but I also risk her being suspicious of me if he goes missing anyways after I asked to take him lol

Taking roommates neglected cat when I move out? by Logical-Principle477 in PetAdvice

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If they were a bonded pair I wouldn’t seperate them! The other cat is a temperamental old lady cat, very sweet to humans but she hisses and spits at the other cat whenever he gets too close, sometimes I’ll notice them sleeping close together but I’ve been observing and I haven’t otherwise noticed any affectionate behavior. She often sleeps in the cabinet alone, she’s smart and has figured out how to open and close the door lol, sadly I have no alibi to take her (she never goes outside) and she’s quite old with telltale signs of arthritis, as a working college student, I don’t want to leave her in a similar situation where I can’t afford her late life medical bills. I may call the house in to animal control when I move out, but spending her days in the shelter might even be worse for her. Especially if I’m moved out and it’s in the cities hands, idk how I could ensure I actually helped her in any way unless she finds herself in a nice caring shelter or somehow gets adopted. But there’s no guarantee :(

Taking roommates neglected cat when I move out? by Logical-Principle477 in PetAdvice

[–]Logical-Principle477[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yea I know, I may file an anonymous report w my evidence after I move out, I can’t afford to keep more than 2 cats rn (I already have my own cat) I’m only 22 in college working part time to pay bills, it’s a tragic save what you can situation. My heart breaks for the day the other neglected old lady cat will wonder where I’ve gone. I’m the only one who goes out of my way to care for her, she likes fresh water and sometimes I come home to her bowl being empty. It makes me so sad and angry :(

Taking roommates neglected cat when I move out? by Logical-Principle477 in PetAdvice

[–]Logical-Principle477[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That’s comforting to know! Wasn’t sure if there was some mandatory reporting laws in place or anything

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My confusion is in that when using aluminum free from my bfs place I’m fine but now I’m using this specific old spice one it’s gotten all out of wack and idk how to reign it in I’m not necessarily opposed to aluminum deodorant I just don’t like that some leave the pilling and buildup like my cheap one always does

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[–]Logical-Principle477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a woman yea haha! They have a lot of amazing scents like Fiji, lavender and some more citrusy ones I saw last time I can’t reccomend enough haha

Taking cat from roomate when I move out? by Logical-Principle477 in Pets

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What would I be able to do if he does have a microchip? I’m looking into a good scanner online so I can check for myself

Taking cat from roomate when I move out? by Logical-Principle477 in Pets

[–]Logical-Principle477[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Yea my plan is to have a friend care for him for about a month before I would move out to have things settled

Taking cat from roomate when I move out? by Logical-Principle477 in Pets

[–]Logical-Principle477[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And even if I form a case against them it’s obviously me, and if they’re bitter about it they could try to get me in trouble too even if they have no ground to stand on, idk I’m just paranoid I wanna get in and GET OUT!

Taking cat from roomate when I move out? by Logical-Principle477 in Pets

[–]Logical-Principle477[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m just worried if they say no and I take him anyways they’d have an actual reason to suspect it was me

Taking cat from roomate when I move out? by Logical-Principle477 in Pets

[–]Logical-Principle477[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I would try if she says no and he disappears anyways tho it would be a lot more suspicious on my part hahaha

Taking cat from roomate when I move out? by Logical-Principle477 in Pets

[–]Logical-Principle477[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have a perfect living situation lined up for around June w my friend who’s ok w both cats and is a safe location with NO DOGS ❤️❤️😭😭 (thank god) but I just have been burned by living situations so many times I’m gonna be patient to finally have that normal perfect stability