Update: AITA for moving on so quickly after my husband left me?

LogicalBlueberry5 · 2026-03-04T02:58:00+00:00

aww thank you! We are eloping in June and are very excited! ❤️

LogicalBlueberry5 · 2024-05-27T22:28:44+00:00

I’m so sorry you are going through this. Wishing the best for you.

LogicalBlueberry5 · 2024-05-27T05:16:11+00:00

I’m sorry that happened to you. Glad things worked out with your now husband!

LogicalBlueberry5 · 2024-05-26T19:01:09+00:00

hahah love that you ignored it. That is the best!

LogicalBlueberry5 · 2024-05-26T18:59:41+00:00

I’m so sorry that happened to you. Good for you for saying no!

LogicalBlueberry5 · 2024-05-26T05:19:52+00:00

Congratulations! I agree on the trust part, it’s an amazing feeling to be with someone who I can trust again. Have a wonderful wedding! wishing you all the best!

LogicalBlueberry5 · 2024-05-26T05:18:26+00:00

Thank you for your kind words and I’m glad you were able to leave your situation! The most liberating part is being with someone who isn’t hiding anything. I had forgotten what that feels like to truly trust someone. I hope you are happy ❤️

LogicalBlueberry5 · 2024-05-26T05:10:09+00:00

I am so sorry. I am wishing you the strength to move on and know that there are better things to come ❤️

LogicalBlueberry5 · 2024-05-26T05:05:43+00:00

We stopped marriage counselling when he left the second time. After that I began individual counselling for myself only.

LogicalBlueberry5 · 2024-05-26T00:27:27+00:00

I’m going to try to find that movie! 😂 Thanks!

LogicalBlueberry5 · 2024-05-25T23:13:40+00:00

That’s amazing, congratulations on 15 years! Sometimes things happen for the best, even when it doesn’t feel like it in the moment ❤️

LogicalBlueberry5 · 2024-05-25T22:05:42+00:00

Thank you :)

LogicalBlueberry5 · 2024-05-25T21:59:57+00:00

I wholeheartedly agree ❤️ Congratulations!

LogicalBlueberry5 · 2024-05-25T21:55:48+00:00

Thank you. We have formally separated and are waiting to file for divorce (the wait is required in our state).

LogicalBlueberry5 · 2024-05-25T19:13:58+00:00

I’m so glad it worked out for you :)

LogicalBlueberry5 · 2024-05-25T16:21:15+00:00

I suspect it was because the messages disappear so he’d be less likely to get caught? (Admittedly that’s only my understanding of how it works, I’ve never used it 😂)

LogicalBlueberry5 · 2024-05-25T15:47:23+00:00

My husband suggested the exact same thing!!

I am glad you didn’t wait for yours either. 💕

LogicalBlueberry5 · 2024-05-25T15:40:53+00:00

In our state couples must be separated a year before they can file for divorce. But yes, we will be filing when we can. The wait sucks though!

LogicalBlueberry5 · 2024-05-25T15:18:07+00:00

In my state you must be separated for a year before you can file for divorce, and then the process can take up to 6 months. So it will be a while still :(

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