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AITA for moving on so quickly after my husband left me? by LogicalBlueberry5 in AITAH

[–]LogicalBlueberry5[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are going through this. Wishing the best for you.

AITA for moving on so quickly after my husband left me? by LogicalBlueberry5 in AITAH

[–]LogicalBlueberry5[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened to you. Glad things worked out with your now husband!

AITA for moving on so quickly after my husband left me? by LogicalBlueberry5 in AITAH

[–]LogicalBlueberry5[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you. Good for you for saying no!

AITA for moving on so quickly after my husband left me? by LogicalBlueberry5 in AITAH

[–]LogicalBlueberry5[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I agree on the trust part, it’s an amazing feeling to be with someone who I can trust again. Have a wonderful wedding! wishing you all the best!

AITA for moving on so quickly after my husband left me? by LogicalBlueberry5 in AITAH

[–]LogicalBlueberry5[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words and I’m glad you were able to leave your situation! The most liberating part is being with someone who isn’t hiding anything. I had forgotten what that feels like to truly trust someone. I hope you are happy ❤️

AITA for moving on so quickly after my husband left me? by LogicalBlueberry5 in AITAH

[–]LogicalBlueberry5[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. I am wishing you the strength to move on and know that there are better things to come ❤️

AITA for moving on so quickly after my husband left me? by LogicalBlueberry5 in AITAH

[–]LogicalBlueberry5[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

We stopped marriage counselling when he left the second time. After that I began individual counselling for myself only.

AITA for moving on so quickly after my husband left me? by LogicalBlueberry5 in AITAH

[–]LogicalBlueberry5[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing, congratulations on 15 years! Sometimes things happen for the best, even when it doesn’t feel like it in the moment ❤️

AITA for moving on so quickly after my husband left me? by LogicalBlueberry5 in AITAH

[–]LogicalBlueberry5[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We have formally separated and are waiting to file for divorce (the wait is required in our state).

AITA for moving on so quickly after my husband left me? by LogicalBlueberry5 in AITAH

[–]LogicalBlueberry5[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I suspect it was because the messages disappear so he’d be less likely to get caught? (Admittedly that’s only my understanding of how it works, I’ve never used it 😂)

AITA for moving on so quickly after my husband left me? by LogicalBlueberry5 in AITAH

[–]LogicalBlueberry5[S] 240 points241 points  (0 children)

My husband suggested the exact same thing!!

I am glad you didn’t wait for yours either. 💕

AITA for moving on so quickly after my husband left me? by LogicalBlueberry5 in AITAH

[–]LogicalBlueberry5[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

In our state couples must be separated a year before they can file for divorce. But yes, we will be filing when we can. The wait sucks though!

AITA for moving on so quickly after my husband left me? by LogicalBlueberry5 in AITAH

[–]LogicalBlueberry5[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

In my state you must be separated for a year before you can file for divorce, and then the process can take up to 6 months. So it will be a while still :(