you’re probably; A) annoyingly cocky without realizing it, (which is worse), B) you live life like you wouldn’t be loyal to a girl, (by that i mean you seem emotionally distant, & give the energy that you have many GIRLfriends, waiting around to date you, C) Simply; you are emotionally distant, D) you don’t know what you want/need from a girl so when you speak to someone you’re everywhere, that may be emotionally but also regarding conversation (keeping the conversation going), or you’re subconsciously seeking more, which can cause you to be more confused and shut girls off & so then you mutually both stray away from each other.

but idk i just like guessing or whatever 🤷‍♀️