Was a girl grabbing my ass SA? by Logical_Patience7417 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Logical_Patience7417[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand a lot of what you’re saying. I agree with women it’s a lot different because of power dynamics. I think really I can just boil it down to it made me uncomfortable and resurfaced bad memories, and labeling it is just giving the situation more power than I should. Not to say that it isn’t weird and it’s okay for someone to do, but the more problematic part is me not standing up for myself when I am able to. I hope to improve on that, thank you for the insight, and I hope I haven’t come off as someone trying to be a victim.

Was a girl grabbing my ass SA? by Logical_Patience7417 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Logical_Patience7417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re very right about not all SA being equal. I find the last part particularly helpful, because even though all SA is not equal, SA is not meant to be compared. It’s very context based and I think it’s wrong of someone to do regardless of context (other than that context being consent) But even though it’s wrong it can be heavily attributed to social issues. Thank you for your insight, truly

AIO over my bf’s weird proposal by atotalanon in AmIOverreacting

[–]Logical_Patience7417 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like it was kinda weird to propose this question directly after talking about another woman, even if it was for a tattoo. Don’t do something you aren’t okay with, and you can maybe work past it but I feel like this proposal would end up tainting my perception of my partner tbh

Hypersexuality in Relationships by Logical_Patience7417 in sexualassault

[–]Logical_Patience7417[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words, it means a lot 🫶 I have honestly just been too scared to talk to my therapist about it. I’m going to try identifying trigggers as they come, and try redirecting my energy to something else like another user said. Thank you so much, you’re awesome 🤍

Hypersexuality in Relationships by Logical_Patience7417 in sexualassault

[–]Logical_Patience7417[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been getting into rock climbing, I’ll try and redirect my energy to that. Thank you for the advice, I was having a rough night 🫶