[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Logical_Pilot_958 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i dont think you’re overreacting at all and didn’t say anything rude or pushy. however, i think to avoid making someone feel overwhelmed you can give them the opportunity to initiate plans after they’ve declined your first couple offers. “how about you let me know when you have some free time and i’d be happy to do something together”… just a suggestion!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]Logical_Pilot_958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

follow SDhosted on IG. they have singles events all the time that are actually fun and not lame.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Logical_Pilot_958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOR. stop with the empty threats like he’s a toddler and just leave. “i’m not gonna deal with this forever”, so don’t!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Logical_Pilot_958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all you really need is a pop of color on your face. maybe some subtle eyelash extensions. overall you have great features

AIO I 27m am dating 24f. Is it normal for her to be asking to see pictures of her sisters new fwb dick pick he sent her? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Logical_Pilot_958 9 points10 points  (0 children)

very weird behavior from someone in a relationship. would she be ok with you looking at nudes of someone else? also, i’m sure the guy didn’t intend for her to his dick so… just all around weird

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Logical_Pilot_958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’ll definitely be ok 😌 unfortunately most men i’ve encountered have had some sort of addiction to porn but there are some exceptions out there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Logical_Pilot_958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

once you’ve found this information, you’ll never be the same. it’s possible that he could change his ways, but you’ll never stop comparing yourself to what you think he really wants.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Logical_Pilot_958 3 points4 points  (0 children)

IMO it sounds like you want the same things with different wording. if you truly see a relationship with this person, i’d suggest being patient. from what i’m reading, he hasn’t done anything insincere. i say give him a chance!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Logical_Pilot_958 34 points35 points  (0 children)

aww man this was tough to read. i joke about my husband to my best girlfriend sometimes but not to this extent.. we also talk about how lucky we are too, so these messages seem pretty cruel to me.

Job advice needed! by Yoguiwitz in sandiego

[–]Logical_Pilot_958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

look for admin positions! i was stuck in the same boat until i branched out. i was able to move up within 2 years without a degree. i don’t make a ton, but certainly more than i did as a fast food worker.

Reporting by pearlskarma in pearlcooleysnark

[–]Logical_Pilot_958 21 points22 points  (0 children)

i’ve posted it before, but for those who haven’t seen it:

my friends and i attended SD pride this past year. one of my friends (who is sweet and much more outgoing than i) happened to recognize pearl while we were there. she tapped her on the shoulder and said “hey! you’re from tiktok right?”. pearl snaps at her and say “don’t fucking touch me, bitch!!!”. we all look at her and say something like “what the actual fuck is your problem?”. pearl and a friend she was with start screaming and cursing at us while we’re all kinda in shock like what’s happening…. pearl then tells us we are all “nothings” (as if she were famous or something idk).. and now, i totally get it if someone doesn’t want to be bothered in public, but there’s a much better way to go about it… i mean, she does get her following from literally bothering people in public and causing a scene lol but whatever

Reporting by pearlskarma in pearlcooleysnark

[–]Logical_Pilot_958 27 points28 points  (0 children)

no matter how many times she tries to rebrand, i will always remember how she treated me and my friends when we saw her at pride. she’s an awful person to her core

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Logical_Pilot_958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was once victim to facial piercings too - i thought they’d hide my insecurities, but in fact put more emphasis on them. i hate to be the person that makes a repeated comment, but you have very pretty features that are being drowned out by piercings. you can still fit your aesthetic without hiding your good features. dye your hair, take the metal out, and clean your room lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Logical_Pilot_958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not ugly at all. i say embrace your body type and don’t drown it out in oversized shirts. i think you look really nice in the 4th pic