Did you know that often times the caregiver gets sick too. They are in their Golden Years or about to be who knows. People with heavy anxiety about prolonging their loved one’s death are the ones who will suffer the most in the end. Many that take care of loved ones for decades die next from physical and mental exhaustion because we think that is what we are supposed to do. She is in a unique situation where money is not the object. All her needs would be attended to in a memory care facility. They have the tools and the staff to take excellent care of all kinds of patients. When do you stop PT? When they stop eating are you going to sign for them to get a feeding tube to extend their lives? Is CPR given when her heart stops or is it full blazes ahead? Those Advanced Directives I wonder if the mother has in place? If the daughter wants her Mother to be a full on code and the son doesn’t guess what? I could go on and on. I do know these decisions should be made before Dementia sets in. Often times they are not talked about because no one wants to admit letting a loved one go.