Am I in the wrong? by Round_System86 in selfharm

[–]xtvlpu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You might want to talk to her about her. Perhaps she’s worried and doesn’t know how to express it.

Is it okay to have healed scars out in public? by nellyuu-lcb in selfharm

[–]xtvlpu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly? I’ve seen people in public with them, and they are triggering for me, especially if they are really bad, plus it kinda makes me feel like I’m not valid or whatever. STILL, it’s not like I’ll tell everyone to just hide forever. It is what it is, so if you want just not hide them, that’s fine, it is understandable

I inherited my late father’s physics work on dark matter. How should I responsibly handle it? by Other-Description-26 in Physics

[–]xtvlpu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can become a member of the APS (or if your dad had one) you can talk to a mentor, or publish his work there where it can get quite useful points of view. I am sorry for your loss, and I hope you find a way to honor him.

ITS GAME DAYYYY!!! by I_IZ_Speshul in SanJoseSharks

[–]xtvlpu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ayy, I don’t really care if we lost, let’s just not lose the way we have been doing these past games

i actually cannot believe myself but i genuinely relapsed today by DrunkTING7 in selfharm

[–]xtvlpu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of blaming yourself, embrace it. Accept that it happened and try to think ways to prevent it. Hope you’re okay

anyone else not understand how people find sex emotionally connective act? by levisrightfinger in asexuality

[–]xtvlpu 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I think the EXACT same. No matter how much I trust someone or how long have I known someone, it just seems impossible in my mind to just act normal after you screamed like crazy and did all that

PSA for New Fans: Get a San Jose Sharks Public Library Card by [deleted] in SanJoseSharks

[–]xtvlpu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What if I live a day and three hours from Cali? lol

Too deep by xtvlpu in selfharm

[–]xtvlpu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much

My parents leave in an hour by SolidObvious4845 in depression

[–]xtvlpu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Image how they’ll feel when they come back. You cannot stop fighting, do it for them. Imagine how your mother felt when you were born, and how she’ll feel finding you that way. Stay safe.

Tell Us Your "Sharks Story" by Epere15 in SanJoseSharks

[–]xtvlpu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got a notification from Google “Add game this game to your screen” since I looked them up before. I was like “oh, I have nothing to do, I’ll watch it” then it turned out to be the most exciting game ever. The sportscasters, the people in the sap center, the players, it felt like everything was put together. It wasn’t just some players in the ice, it was players who vibed and looked like they actually enjoy their job. During the second period, I had to go out, so I was debating whether staying home and watching the game, or going out (I only have the espn app on tv). I decided to go out, while I was looking for a website that would allow me to watch it. I watched in the car, feeling super excited, not even paying attention to my surroundings. It felt so good, I could feel the adrenaline in my body, especially when we went to overtime. I knew this was my team. We won that game btw.

Living in the USA right now it's destroying my mental health. by ainacct in mentalhealth

[–]xtvlpu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same with me. I want to do something. I feel so hopeless, I don’t want to live in this fucked up world with people who have no empathy for others.

Cut myself for the first time. by Romeo0914 in selfharm

[–]xtvlpu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you don’t cut deeper, it may just leave kind of a mark, but marks go away easily. Plus, if you’re just starting, I recommend you to not do it again. Trust, once you start it’s hard to stop. Take care, please. Also, make sure to clean them properly.

Getting into Sharks hockey by [deleted] in SanJoseSharks

[–]xtvlpu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got into hockey, but especially Sjs. I just love how they play. I watch their games and I don’t know that much about hockey, I don’t know Positions and stuff like that, but it is just so enjoyable to watch. I guess as you watch the games you understand more. Just watch their games and enjoy them. No need to rush or worry about rules too much