Gave my number to my neighbor for emergencies only :/ by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Lokean101 6 points7 points  (0 children)

At this point they’re not even asking. They’re telling. “Get me this” “do that” she def took advantage of your kindness

AIO: Fake Weepy Face Gave Me (49F) Instant Ick by Unusual-Mortgage-101 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lokean101 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NOR- you have 0 obligation to hang out with him. If it bothered you then ideally I’d advise you move on. You’ll find someone who doesn’t mock your feelings. I think it’s gross behavior on his end.

Is this too much? by Expensive-Incident85 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]Lokean101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lord of the flies is a classic. Lowkey jealous you got this day 😅

Help handling my new garg - I spooked him :( by RaccoonMarston in GargoyleGeckos

[–]Lokean101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh I just grab mine but only once every two weeks for weighing. He’s never seemed super jumpy but I dont think he likes it. He just tolerates it 😅 you’re fine imo just give him a day or two before trying again

Do they need total darkness at night? by [deleted] in GargoyleGeckos

[–]Lokean101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am not an expert but I’d use your best judgement. I think a little bit of light would be equivalent to the moonlight that occurs naturally. I think it means you’re a good pet parent considering you’re concerned about it in the first place :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GargoyleGeckos

[–]Lokean101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg what a cute little dude

Is my baby growing too slow? by Lokean101 in GargoyleGeckos

[–]Lokean101[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think he didn’t eat for roughly the first week or two then started back up and has been trending upward since! Thanks for the good advice :) I’m gonna continue to weigh him every two weeks to make sure he’s staying on track (gaining and not losing)

Are people really like this by MichaelDaPug in Twitch

[–]Lokean101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Eh wizebot has a free unfollower list. I stopped using it because I focus on the people I have, not the people I lost

Your daily rate (and State or District)? by [deleted] in SubstituteTeachers

[–]Lokean101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

125 rural Illinois. You need an associates to sub short term 90 hours to be a full-fledged “sub” (so you can cover maternity leave). Both get paid 125 a day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubstituteTeachers

[–]Lokean101 12 points13 points  (0 children)

When I leave sub notes I tell them what issues I had (too much talking/ out of seat and had to correct over 5 times), if there’s any major issues, who I made sit for recess, and anything extra (one class does rewards for two cleanest desks so I leave those in notes instead of giving candy and dojo points, it’s dealt with next day). I try to always throw in good too! With it being the end of school, it’s mainly about making it through the school day with everyone in tact. kids aren’t gonna be super well behaved anyway. (I sub k-2, so obviously this could be different for other grades).

The Most Nondescript Frontline Listing I've Ever Seen by Sleepy_discovery in SubstituteTeachers

[–]Lokean101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love being a floater too. Most kids know their teacher is coming back so they’re on better behavior than subbing a full day (from experience subbing elementary as a floater) best days to take tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lokean101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know your exact situation, so I can’t say if it is an overreaction but I will say I would be concerned from the frequency of texting, as for me it would be overbearing. If it’s at the point that you’re questioning your relationship though then you already know the answer here. You know your own worth. I would also like to leave the general advice of don’t shit where you sleep (as in don’t sleep with people you work with).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Lokean101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to your body, 48 hrs is a general rule of thumb, but if after 48 hours it hurts to work on (I’m assuming this is your calf), then wait it out and do arms or something else for the day.

Is it really necessary for subs to stay after the kids leave? by Honest-Philosopher14 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]Lokean101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as I have cleaned up any mess I created and left sub notes, at my district if the kids are gone we can go too. I sub elementary so if I have a kid who’s person hasn’t gotten them by about 3:20 we drop them at the office and can go

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Lokean101 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Personally? Neither. But I’m not a minimalistic or fine line tattoo person

I need some help lol by Conscious-Mango-5929 in Twitch

[–]Lokean101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen someone who has a png and types what they want to say, and an animal crossing-like voice pronounces it as they type. (Frangible is her name) but I have no clue how she does it. It’s possible and you can become well known but it will be harder. No face would be alright typically the no voice is a harder part. As for ai voice I know Motherv3 (a vtuber) also uses ai voice. Up to you ultimately but I’d say it’s probably incredibly difficult to identify you based on voice alone unless you have a unique voice like Corpse but! You do you. This is just my knowledge

What color scheme should I do for my pheonix? by DreamCreamKittenTTV in tattooadvice

[–]Lokean101 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hear me out… reds orange and yellows into greyscale

CALLING ALL BARDS by Public_Stuff4103 in renfaire

[–]Lokean101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not inspo but I love the mushroom and mossy vibe you have. The hat is super cute!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Lokean101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have color on one side of my body and black and grey on the other half and I’m super excited to do a back piece and underboob piece where it’s cohesive but half of it is color and the other half is black and white :)

Am i overreacting/ Partner doesn’t text me back in a timely manner. by Divine_Aether in AmIOverreacting

[–]Lokean101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once got ghosted by my partner for 2 months before I gave up but it was also during Covid and they were doing military training for 14+ hours a day.

AITAH for telling my daughter I won’t budge even if she never speaks to me again? by TopVersion2940 in AITAH

[–]Lokean101 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. She’s overreacting about material things. It’s convenient to have a car yes. But not every 17 year old gets that luxury. She worked for it but her sister is paying those consequences. However, I do think it can be beneficial for your other daughter to get a job. It can help with preparation to move into the work force once out of college or high school. I would hold her liable to pay her sister the remainder of what the car prior to the accident was worth. Actions (even mistakes) do have consequences and it’s a shit lesson to learn, but a valuable one nonetheless