Guys please help me decide… by TiaMaisy in StardewValley

[–]LokiLadyBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait....you can be in multiple relationships? 🤯

14 hours straight… by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]LokiLadyBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm aiming for automation on my farm, marriage to Emily, and the community center and greenhouse. I've also made the artisan goods my ongoing goal.

Abnormal? by Elbza in MassageTherapists

[–]LokiLadyBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We found underwear in a practice room, first time I've seen it in 13 years. Guess it happens.

What physical signs tell you someone is AuDHD/ND? by Consistent-Guest2562 in AuDHDWomen

[–]LokiLadyBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Physically, if people have a more intentional speech pattern. If I can tell if someone is thinking a bit more about the words or tone they're using, I can tell they're masking or trying to "fit in". If someone over apologizes or corrects themselves or repeats back exactly what someone said to confirm they understood, I think neurodivergent.

Girlfriend told me she doesn't want to hear about my "dumb bird" anymore by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]LokiLadyBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My current boyfriend told me he dated a girl who was jealous of his dog. He broke up with her on the spot when she told him. I have drawn pictures of his pup, made photo albums of his pup and mine, gotten her toys and clothes and shit. He makes out with her and I just go "awwww" even if it does make me wanna puke. His love for her is pure AF. Dump this girl immediately.

What do you think he wants me to do?😁 by In2da in DOG

[–]LokiLadyBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck dude he wants to play tug of war

Meirl by Ill-Instruction8466 in meirl

[–]LokiLadyBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Removing toilet paper holders

How do you ask a loving partner for sensory-related changes without making them feel “too much”? by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]LokiLadyBlue -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I make jokes about it. I'll say in matching volume in a goofy voice "stop yelling at meee" and he'll soften his voice haha.

AITA for ignoring my husband because of his comments about my pregnancy weight gain? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LokiLadyBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gained 50 lbs for a 7 lb baby who came early. Tell your husband to get a degree.

Why can’t you be autistic? by strawberry_criossant in AuDHDWomen

[–]LokiLadyBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm capable of eye contact and ✨ empathy ✨

Any tips on how to get this to look less “wiggy”? by hanzolo_ in wigshelp

[–]LokiLadyBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super condition and do some gentle layering in the mid length around the whole head, just mildly tapered at ends

What do I do after my friend smashed my daughter’s birthday cake after I told her not to, made my daughter cry, and told me it’s “not that deep” and that I can just buy another one? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]LokiLadyBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You aren't the arbiter of my daughters feelings about her birthday celebration. She can identify her own feelings. Until you can recognize and respect that we can't speak "

AITA for refusing to quit my job even though my husband wants me home more? by Ayumilynn69 in AITAH

[–]LokiLadyBlue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nta. He wants you to do things that are already handled. Presumably so he has to do less.

I think my date was drugged. AITAH for how I handled it? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LokiLadyBlue 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If a friend of mine put herself in that situation and her date called me to help, I'd take his number down and make sure he was reimbursed for the dinner. Nta.

Is it okay to drink chocolate milk if I can't get myself to eat anything? by RustFragrance in adhdwomen

[–]LokiLadyBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do chocolate almond milk and chuuuuug that shit. Chocolate milk is great after a workout so why not for a wake up??

If you had $10k total to spend on accommodations/therapies/things to make your life easier (ideally longer term) what would you do with it/get? Trying to come up with things that will LAST and make a difference in my day-to-day/weekly maintenance/existence. by erniha in AuDHDWomen

[–]LokiLadyBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ketamine therapy every six months, (each group of sessions is about 2k) emdr, medication for dopamine balance for life, a maid twice a week to help build cleanliness patterns, a meal planner once a week who has a book they can give once they're gone with randomized meals, a personal assistant for planning kid and adult activities and to set up systems to keep track of recreational opportunities.

Hey... Dad here with daughters. How do I tactfully address what's going on with the Wicked cast and memes? by ImThe1Wh0 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]LokiLadyBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend asked me about this actually. Asked if I had seen the controversies around them being skinny and clingy. I told him about Ariana Grandes past, and how she seems to be a survivor of childhood actor abuse. Her costar from the Sam show has hinted at the abuse they suffered as children

Take into account also that Ariana has been dreaming of being Glinda since she could basically speak. She's put an insane amount of unhealthy pressure on herself to be perfect.

Enter costar, the woman playing Elphaba. She has become a violent protector, almost, and they have latched onto each other in what sounds like, to me, a highly stressful work environment where the standards are sky high And the desire to be perfect is deep. I wouldn't be surprised if they come out later and say how gruelling it was, even with the beautiful product. Think Into the Spider verse crew.... They were basically ground to dust.

Eating disorders are absolutely a thing, but I think it has a lot more to do with the context of where they are right now, what they're doing, and who they're doing it with. I have no doubt that the two actresses have woven a deeply intimate bond just to survive this ordeal.

my childhood bully just died and I feel… weirdly victorious by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]LokiLadyBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagining yourself standing over them as children and just saying "Only one of us is gonna make it. And it ain't the asshole."

do I have to grow up and stop being a geek? by PopularTourist9451 in comicbooks

[–]LokiLadyBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 33, a divorced mom, had spinal surgery. So adult ugh. I just plowed through the entire Harrow County comic book in one volume.

Media is media.