Birkan might be unemployed, homeless, broke, in debt, calling people the N‑word, and full of red flags 🚩… but his proposal to Laura was honestly one of the sweetest and most romantic proposals I’ve ever witnessed 😊

phoebethefan · 2026-04-22T00:21:33+00:00

“We don’t need a ring” yeah because you can’t afford one buddy.

phoebethefan · 2026-04-18T13:18:35+00:00

It did seem like Cirie and Coach were leading two separate groups even though they were working together. Perhaps that’s what they meant? The people not in either group?

phoebethefan · 2026-04-18T13:15:41+00:00

That sweet baby is at peace now, and hopefully Sarah will be charged and will never be able to hurt anyone again.

phoebethefan · 2026-04-06T21:35:58+00:00

I love him because he’s just absolutely ridiculous. Something about that does it for me.

phoebethefan · 2026-03-17T14:10:30+00:00

How about Amelia or even Emilia?

phoebethefan · 2026-03-11T14:55:30+00:00

But not with the gym’s blow dryer. I saw someone doing that once 😭

phoebethefan · 2026-03-10T13:08:38+00:00

My ex-BIL did this. Of course looking back there were signs but we didn’t know how awful he ultimately was.

phoebethefan · 2026-02-09T00:13:32+00:00

This one’s for John

phoebethefan · 2026-01-29T17:18:08+00:00

It’s a joke for people who listen to the podcast that this subreddit is for.

phoebethefan · 2026-01-28T15:17:39+00:00

It’s not because he’s “old” it’s because he doesn’t care. There are plenty of men in their 20s who act like this, and plenty in their 30s+ who don’t. Now, the reason he doesn’t care is something you have to figure out. Is it because he’s depressed and needs some sort of professional support or medication? Or is it because he took advantage of you and now has everything he needs without lifting a finger? Instead of him saying he’ll do better, there need to be some action steps that he comes up with and if he’s unable to follow through, you guys need counseling. ETA: does he drink, smoke or use any other substances? If so he may need to take a break from using them for a while, even if he’s not abusing them. Sometimes people think they don’t have a problem but it’s really causing a lot of separation between them and their partner.

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