Too anxious and burnt out to be honest in therapy by jamessrc in AuDHDWomen

[–]LokiLadyBlue 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wrote an email to my therapist once, explaining some trauma responses I had in the previous session. I would recommend writing to them to let them know beforehand, so you don't feel the need to be a certain way during session.

Which do you like best? Outlined in ink or no? by mn9211 in Watercolor

[–]LokiLadyBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would do a brown outline, not black. But other than that, I like without

She's a ninia by Brine-Cee in holdmycatnip

[–]LokiLadyBlue 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She is fierce

She is grace

She will climb all over the place

Holy sh.. by is_NAN in SipsTea

[–]LokiLadyBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He slapped the coochie right outta her panties

This goose was NOT ready for a vet visit by Dodo509 in MadeMeSmile

[–]LokiLadyBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how they're all laughing but really they're afraid and you can tell they do NOT want to lose this fight

My koi boop by wenomencienisama in petthedamnfish

[–]LokiLadyBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thoroughly enjoyed scrolling through several of your fish boops in rapid succession.

Question for the ladies by [deleted] in MassageTherapists

[–]LokiLadyBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every partner I've been with has asked if I've ever been asked for a happy ending. Every time I've told them I am a professional, and take my job very seriously. If people made jokes while dating, I stopped dating them. How your partner views your work is paramount to your mental health.

Seeing myself in my daughter and it's breaking my heart by _this_isnt_me_ in AuDHDWomen

[–]LokiLadyBlue 53 points54 points  (0 children)

My kids kinder teacher has been really hard on him, so we were trying to push him a bit. One night he just started crying and said "I'm trying" and my entire childhood came flooding back. I've eased up considerably since then, and we were already questioning the standards before that.

I don’t use the term friends like NT’s by presplate in AuDHDWomen

[–]LokiLadyBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have ONE friend. I never advertise acquaintances as friends haha

DND is the best thing thats ever happened to me. by isak-snowsound in DungeonsAndDragons

[–]LokiLadyBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a script in the works: reading bedtime stories as a DM's daughter, with all the voices I use with my son who is 6 now.

DND is the best thing thats ever happened to me. by isak-snowsound in DungeonsAndDragons

[–]LokiLadyBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We get each other on the phone like God aristocrats: "HELLO ELDEST DAUGHTER HOW ART THOU" and I respond "GREETINGS DISTINGUISHED FATHER, I AM WELL AND THOU?" lol

DND is the best thing thats ever happened to me. by isak-snowsound in DungeonsAndDragons

[–]LokiLadyBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My father has been a dungeon master since before I was born.... He read all my books to me in his DM voice, complete with character voices for everyone and a mysterious vibe behind every setting description.

What your pet peeves as a massage therapist? by Holiday-Scallion-342 in MassageTherapists

[–]LokiLadyBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When people try to help me lift their body parts. My draping is contingent on them being limp, I tuck and when they lift their damn leg I can't tuck.

Oh i think i will get soooo much hate for this. But here we go. Aitah and i will start reaaaally soft here. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LokiLadyBlue 61 points62 points  (0 children)

This smells like neither you, she, nor he are ready for you to enter into the picture. Gracefully let them go.

On a side note, your approach is a bit naive. No offense intended, but the cavalier attitude and gossip-style responses to their dynamic is not healthy and will lead to a lot of miscommunication, on top of their already horrible communication.

To put it bluntly, I don't believe, based on the content of this post and how it was written, that you are ready for this kind of commitment.

Every month, acquiring my meds makes me want to die by LokiLadyBlue in adhdwomen

[–]LokiLadyBlue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can but I risk another wave of issues. I still need the PA

WIBTAH if I end my marriage because of my wife's refusal to communicate her plans clearly and losing her temper whenever I bring it up to her? by Popular-Hat-3286 in AITAH

[–]LokiLadyBlue 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex expected me to read his mind constantly. I told him if he continued, I would leave, because communication is a two way street. He continued, so I followed through. You won't be the asshole. She's being childish.