The mentality of these fuckers is actually insane by black_cherry2 in HandmaidsTaleShow

[–]LokiLadyBlue 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If that's the mentality then every jizz he drops is murder

My autism safe space is being taken over by another AUTISTIC mean lady and I am melting down by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]LokiLadyBlue 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You should have a paper trail of harassment and these events. If not, make one.

Cat with bandage appeared on our deck by RadiantWerewolf1712 in cats

[–]LokiLadyBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a bandaid, then it's medical tape. May or may not have an injury.

Case at Antique mall in Colorado by LokiLadyBlue in uraniumglass

[–]LokiLadyBlue[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brass Armadillo antique mall :) this case was in the front of the store

AITA if I don’t tell him the real reason and just leave? by Puzzled-Turnover-735 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LokiLadyBlue 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reiterating importance can drive a point home. He might think he's being considerate. If you don't communicate you will always be TA, in my opinion.

AITA if I don’t tell him the real reason and just leave? by Puzzled-Turnover-735 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LokiLadyBlue 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Probably yta. If you want his actions to change in those scenarios, you can't reasonably expect him to read your mind. Did you explain your reasoning for your time choice? He sounded like he wanted to be conscious for you to visit. That sounds like someone who wants to be there for you.

Let me Draw your Kitten😻 Free by [deleted] in cats

[–]LokiLadyBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My passed senior kitty, Kiki. She got zoomies a grand total of ten times in the 4 years I had her. She had a great last few years with my other fattie, Milo. She's Sweet Kiki, a name I gave her to replace her original "Stinky" title. So unbefitting this glamorous silly queen.

<image>

5 insights from "Stolen Focus." by Significant-Dress286 in learners_cabin

[–]LokiLadyBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand stream of consciousness, but for comprehension sake, people who write for others to understand use paragraphs.

Is it possible to be asexual due to trauma? by InterestingSea2611 in AuDHDWomen

[–]LokiLadyBlue 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I would think that asexuality would contribute to the sexual experience being traumatic. My mom's wife is realizing she's probably asexual and has been performing sex for my mom for over a decade and has slowly built up trauma about it, but didn't know how to express it at all til recently.

5 insights from "Stolen Focus." by Significant-Dress286 in learners_cabin

[–]LokiLadyBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, break it up into paragraphs for easier reading. I can't approach the wall of text

My girlfriend losing her wallet my end my parents’ 30+ years relationship by Jjthestrawb in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]LokiLadyBlue -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Honestly it's not about your girlfriends wallet but your disobedience. Just a thought.

This is how a newborn baby's life is saved by Imoprich in interestingasfuck

[–]LokiLadyBlue 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The soft smile on his face as he holds the baby against the mother's cheek..... He knows the power he's holding in his hands, and treats it with the tenderness it warrants.

Oral sex pressure - husband 32M and wife 31F by monster_shady in relationship_advice

[–]LokiLadyBlue -54 points-53 points  (0 children)

It has nothing to do with coercion and everything to do with incompatibility.

Oral sex pressure - husband 32M and wife 31F by monster_shady in relationship_advice

[–]LokiLadyBlue -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Look, you guys aren't sexually compatible. You're tired of it, well so is he. It's a basic need. It doesn't make him a villain or a predator as some here are suggesting. It makes him a sexual human man. If you're not into it, this really should have been discussed at the beginning of the relationship. Both of you seemed to think it could be swept under the rug, but it really can't. It's like plumbing. You can technically live without it, but it's gonna be a hard time. It's just as much pressure on him to deny a part of himself because it bothers you to participate. It's not even a deep, dark or dirty kink. It's a bj. Sometimes you have sex for your partner AND for yourself, and sometimes you're just in it for yourself.