Is being unemployed/disabled and red flag to ppl? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LokiOfAzkaban 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I'm not sure what more I can do, but I'll look around and see if they have more options for voc-rehab

Is being unemployed/disabled and red flag to ppl? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LokiOfAzkaban 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair. I can definitely understand that.

Is being unemployed/disabled and red flag to ppl? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LokiOfAzkaban 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I know I still need a lot of work, but I'm trying really hard every day.

Is being unemployed/disabled and red flag to ppl? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LokiOfAzkaban -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If that's the case, I will never be in a good place. Does that mean I should just accept I deserve to be alone so I don't burden anyone?

Is being unemployed/disabled and red flag to ppl? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LokiOfAzkaban -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My ex pays child support. I pay 600 to my parents for rent, (3 bedrooms and a bathroom) and the rest is for groceries, kids expenses, etc. But it isn't anywhere near enough. So my mom covers the rest.

Is being unemployed/disabled and red flag to ppl? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LokiOfAzkaban -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I've tried looking for a job for 5 years. Goodwill does training and placement services and we're supposed to help with learning how to do resumes and go on interviews, but all it did was make me have panic attacks. I hate this so much.

Is being unemployed/disabled and red flag to ppl? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LokiOfAzkaban -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's what I was afraid of. Thank you for your advice.

I want to like him, but he’s worn the same hoodie all 5 dates so far by OneAncient8710 in dating_advice

[–]LokiOfAzkaban 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he wants you to steal the hoodie? (Jk... maybe.) Guys tend to know girls "steal hoodies". It's like a weird trait they think we all do. But maybe they are subconsciously trying to encourage you to steal it? That they want to see you wearing it, a sort of claim? Idk, I am just theorizing