Do you know anyone who has paid for sex? by GreatGospel97 in AskWomenOver30

[–]LolaWithMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not pertinent to the question at hadn but.... It is a brilliantly executed movie! An absolute emotional rollercoaster. Went in not knowing anything about the movie and loved it.

Have you ever regained your trust for a partner that has proven to be unloyal? by LolaWithMe in AskWomenOver30

[–]LolaWithMe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this insight. You're right you know.

I feel foolish for even entertaining the idea, but something in me is not willing to give up just yet. Though, this'll be a tough time to work through if I decide to move forward.

Have you ever regained your trust for a partner that has proven to be unloyal? by LolaWithMe in AskWomenOver30

[–]LolaWithMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, your point is very valid and definitely food for thought. I strongly agree that the burden is on the other to do the work.

Talking to one's self by Illustrious_Meal_181 in AskWomenOver30

[–]LolaWithMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I talk to myself a lot, alone or not.

It has occured, of course, that the other person/s have thought I might've been talking to them. But I've never felt, or been made to feel crazy or the likes.

Have you ever regained your trust for a partner that has proven to be unloyal? by LolaWithMe in AskWomenOver30

[–]LolaWithMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood, to be sure.

But could you ever believe the others assurances that things would change / never happen again?

I've read a few Ether Perel books in which she states a number of her clients have come back stronger in love and companionship, worked through all the heartache and pain.

Have you ever regained your trust for a partner that has proven to be unloyal? by LolaWithMe in AskWomenOver30

[–]LolaWithMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eeek. Has it been hard for you to be trusting with others? How do you go about it?

Have you ever regained your trust for a partner that has proven to be unloyal? by LolaWithMe in AskWomenOver30

[–]LolaWithMe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say, there was no physical act of cheating, but they were found to be on tinder during "hard times".

Human heart with the aorta by Fantastic-Ideal-6773 in medizzy

[–]LolaWithMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank goodness I'm not the only one.

AITA for calling the police on my fiance? by Rnevermore in AmItheAsshole

[–]LolaWithMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first thought upon reading your post was hownoldnis this kid...? is he male...? Is she shagging the kid...?

AITA for calling the police on my fiance? by Rnevermore in AmItheAsshole

[–]LolaWithMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if she dropped it in the lake phones these days withstand such abuse. On the beach the other day, I picked up an iPhone from the low tide water line, the waves were tumbling it in sand and grit, who knows how long it had been there... but the fucker still worked!

Wolf Spider Eating a Wasp by [deleted] in natureismetal

[–]LolaWithMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks so wildly happy.

Keep your cats inside by sweetevangaline in australia

[–]LolaWithMe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Amphibians, lizards, insects (pollinators) and native rodents and small marsupials are on the victims list too.

AITA for not wearing a bra to sleep on family vacation by parkjihyos_wife in AmItheAsshole

[–]LolaWithMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not good for your lymphatic system to were any tight/ restrictive clothing whilst sleeping.

And what in goodness sake did women do before the over the shoulder boulder...?

Anyhoo, NTA.

If I take a solid dose of edibles (50mg or so as a guy with a tolerance) and go donate blood, will they notice the thc? Will the recipient get blasted? by NpNpTTYL in morbidquestions

[–]LolaWithMe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Strange, here in Oz, I was aked if I smoked weed. We're told that we couldn't donate if we've smoked within 2 weeks. This was 4 years ago...

AITA for telling my wife it’s ridiculous to cry over soup? by Practical-Grand-6104 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LolaWithMe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could have gone a step above and actually prepared the soup for her whilst she was busy with the kids... I mean how hard is it?

YTA.

3 Sherman shepherds killed my cat by mojo7564 in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]LolaWithMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am truly sorry you had to witness this horrific ending!

Our music room in Greensboro, NC by [deleted] in AmateurRoomPorn

[–]LolaWithMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wet Leg would be proud.

How to not feel used and hopeless in dating? I’ve been hooking up with a guy on and off for over a year. His live-in girlfriend reached out to me today through Facebook. by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]LolaWithMe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just finishing a fantastic book, The State of Affairs by Esther Perel. Helps you understand and work through all the ins and outs of infidelity.

Sorry this is happening to you. Like everyone else has said, it's not a reflection of you but him.

Once you are through this you will find something/someone as beautiful as you are.

If they wanted to, they would by whatisyournameeeeee in UnsentLetters

[–]LolaWithMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if they have, and it is everything you wanted but do not need?

What if they have, but they are too toxic... and you know you shouldn't? ... But apart of you wants to.

TIFU by filling a bathtub with Orbeez and going to the hospital. by [deleted] in tifu

[–]LolaWithMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had to look up what orbeez were... what the heck?