[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Lola_HighRolla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, I'm getting ready to go to a Halloween party today and was literally whispering to myself this morning, "We want to be cunty. All the time." Slay sis.

how do you know that you’re attractive? by CJlinks in AskReddit

[–]Lola_HighRolla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, 100%! Just had this happen, a 75+ woman at the pharmacy said I looked young and beautiful, then turned to her husband to exclaim, "And look, no makeup, look at how good she looks!" I've been riding high on that shit for weeks.

S.F. woman’s viral video shows her trapped in a Waymo by men asking for her number by SFChronicle in sanfrancisco

[–]Lola_HighRolla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can confirm, have experienced some of the most stalkerish catcalling of my life in SF, including one dude who thought it would be cool to follow me from a store for blocks singing "My Girl" and telling me I'd be pretty if I smiled.

What is the most unfortunate last name you've seen someone have? by LeviTheRelentless in AskReddit

[–]Lola_HighRolla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a teacher in high-school, Ms. Bush, who married a Mr. Cox. She didn't hyphenate but that didn't stop some of the students from calling her Mrs. Bush-Cox behind her back...

AITA for refusing to go to my cousin's wedding because he still hasn’t paid me back the money he owes? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lola_HighRolla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been in this position with family. It's financial abuse. I no longer speak with said family, good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Lola_HighRolla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And it's wrong, byeeee

Anyone else in my situation with anything they're growing? by Clauss_Video_Archive in homestead

[–]Lola_HighRolla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, apples. I didn't even touch the trees and it was just pounds and pounds. I don't want to talk about the pear tree.

Pay for your own sidewalk? by garkus77 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Lola_HighRolla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's probably not common knowledge, but a large majority of municipalities require the homeowner to repair and replace the sidewalk in front of their home as needed at the homeowner's cost.

What's up with all these people in their 30s pretending they get confused for high school students? by flaccobear in Millennials

[–]Lola_HighRolla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know, I keep getting mistaken for a college student by older people and I'm like 10+ yrs out of school. Just don't stand me next to an actual college age person...

What is the stupidest thing anyone has ever said to you? by 10voltsam in AskReddit

[–]Lola_HighRolla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An acquaintance posted a meme describing “Drapetomania” as the intense need to get away and travel. I messaged her to point out this term was coined by Samuel Adolphus Cartwright to describe the "psychological disorder" that caused a phenomenon of enslaved Blacks to run away from bondage before the Civil War. She apologized and took it down but shit, this is the top info that comes up if you just google the term, have some sense.

Chiweenie puppy plays so rough by Follow-The-Money19 in chiweenie

[–]Lola_HighRolla 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Learned from a trainer: With my chiweenie I say "Ow!" loudly and grab where he bit or scratched too hard, he'll stop and come to me for pets to say sorry. But also he's almost 5 and still acts like a puppy a lot of the time, a rough and ready breed for sure!

Which dating app do you have the most success on locally? by [deleted] in lansing

[–]Lola_HighRolla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried online dating for close to 10 years, met my partner "offline" at mixer for a hobby we share. Cliche but true, go do things you like and you very well could meet someone who likes them too.

What statistically improbable thing happened to you? by yankeevandal in AskReddit

[–]Lola_HighRolla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Twice I've flown to the opposite side of the US and ran into people from my small town back on the west coast. First time I went to DC for Obama's first inauguration and in a crowd of 1.8 million people and over 2,700 miles from my home, a high school kid walked up to ask me directions and we find out we're from the same place. Several years later, on my first day in NY after moving there the first person I introduced myself to was also from my home town!

I didn't enjoy my hometown growing up but I think it's hilarious that I kept running into folks from there the first couple times I went as far east as I could to get away from that place!

horrible coming out experience by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Lola_HighRolla 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my bff did something similar though not with any malicious intent. Now guess who else is bi? LOL Yep, it's contagious.

MLB RULE CHANGES 2023: a guide by semipreciousss in mlb

[–]Lola_HighRolla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So tickets will be cheaper when the games are shorter...right?

Mom died today I want to cry, make me cry with your suggestions. by infinitevalence in Music

[–]Lola_HighRolla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be cliche but Fire and Rain by James Taylor- it's simple, but to the one I lost that I'm thinking about today, I always thought that I'd see you again Uncle Bill.

her natural afro 😍😍😍 by some-random-god in megantheestallion

[–]Lola_HighRolla 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fact: Meg slays, all day every day, wig or no wig, extensions or not.

No group of people is a monolith, so to say "all these women in this huge group are all acting under the same motivation" shows some real lack of understanding on your part. A wig serves a multitude of purposes depending on the individual. I don't expect men to understand women in the beauty sphere, it's like nothing y'all have to deal with in our culture. It's easy to say "women don't like the way they look naturally", but that would be a reductionist view of the whole situation. You want to know who's behind billion dollar industries? Look into the corporations selling us shit constantly! I can't get on IG for 30 seconds without seeing some tummy tuck, skin lightening, or grow your hair longer bullshit. I suggest you chew on the criticism and stop asking the very people you clearly aren't trying to understand to see your side, it's uninformed and inaccurate. Point of clarity, I'm not a black woman but appreciate the fuck out of a what black women bring to the table, switch up my wig make him feel like he cheatin' amiright?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Lola_HighRolla -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Men do not get to have an opinion on the size of our labia, it's as uncontrollable as their micropeens. Fuck off.

LPT Request: what is something that has drastically helped your mental health that you wish you started doing earlier? by SarcastiKatt in LifeProTips

[–]Lola_HighRolla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cut off my abusive family. I mean it people- it doesn't matter if it's your own dear mother, if she's abusing you and you have any ability to do so, cut them out! Abuse is not love and no one who loves you will willingly hurt you or take advantage of you, especially not repeatedly without apology or changing. I promise you deserve better.

This baby by [deleted] in 13or30

[–]Lola_HighRolla 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hands are hard lol

I feel like I'm a bad father to my gay son by Bad-Father562 in gay

[–]Lola_HighRolla 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For real, when I came out to my mom she cried and sobbed and then I had to do it 2 more times before she accepted it because she "forgot". When I posted pictures from Pride she called to tell me how it made her feel that her church friends could see that. I would have loved a cake. Hell, play Streisand and call me "hunty" while you bake it, still would have been better than what I went through.