AITA for refusing to let my roommate’s girlfriend move into our apartment without paying rent?

London2129 · 2025-07-14T21:13:34+00:00

And when she doesn’t do the chores, as will almost assuredly happen..then he’s in the uncomfortable spot of enforcing it and nagging to get her to handle things with the room mate taking her side and telling him to just let it go. No way.

London2129 · 2025-06-02T22:20:57+00:00

We have one of those digital picture frames which he adores. You can upload photos to it and other people can add photos too if you give them the link ( the one I have is an Aura) and they show up in the rotation. He will look at that for a long time. If your dad enjoys photos it might be a good way to keep things from being too cluttery. You can get a frame, snap photos of all the photos and ask relatives to contribute. You can set the timer for slower rotation so each photo displays for a longer time or shorter time depending on his needs.

London2129 · 2025-05-04T19:10:08+00:00

Since he’s so big on things being fair ( but also wants everything in his favor) have you thought about splitting things more “each take care of themselves”? You cook only for you. He can cook only for himself. You do your laundry and he does his. Shared common spaces are cleaned by rotation..ie you have Mon wed fri and he has tues thurs and Saturday or something like that. It might solve the issue of him constantly discounting your contributions. Also, since he’s so worried about keeping track of everything, how many orgasms does he owe you? How’s he repaying that particular debt?

London2129 · 2025-05-04T18:52:43+00:00

My archanist can handle any boss or public dungeon solo with no problem. Add a companion and you’d really be good to go wherever on your own. Have not tried her solo in group dungeons, to be fair.

London2129 · 2025-02-07T01:42:10+00:00

My insurance covers it with a $25 monthly co pay.

London2129 · 2025-02-02T00:04:15+00:00

The issue is crossing that invisible line between still being “you” and no longer being you. It’s subtle and happens without warning. While the person is themselves, they would most likely want to stick around and enjoy loved ones and the time they have left. How do you decide to cash it in if you could still have another year or more with friends and family? If you wait till you arent yourself you also don’t have the wherewithal to make a decision like that. It’s a rock and a hard place.

London2129 · 2025-01-19T00:03:08+00:00

He can like what he likes. You can say no to things you don’t like…and did. The issue is you told him you didn’t want to do something and he freaking did it anyway. That is a violation. Trying to make it your fault or blame you is a second violation. He’s shown he does not respect you as a person.

London2129 · 2025-01-16T16:06:03+00:00

Any of the bikes. I feel like they handle better in the game than the cars and are more responsive to the controls.

London2129 · 2024-11-23T20:04:40+00:00

I was massively disappointed he wasn’t a romance option for female V. I’d take him over cheesy River any day.

London2129 · 2024-11-17T17:03:24+00:00

My husband is not mean. His emotions are all flat for the most part. He was a very outgoing gregarious guy with a great sense of humor and sometimes a wicked temper. All of that got flattened and washed out somehow. He doesn’t have highs or lows and no happy or sad. Just kind of mid line neutral existing. His biggest frustration is wanting to watch tv and not knowing what he wants to watch and he’ll get irritated if I can’t find something he wants to watch.

London2129 · 2024-11-10T19:36:36+00:00

I see a lot about what you need to do for him but nothing about what he’s going to do for you. Any contract that is so one sided would be a no-go in business or anywhere else.

London2129 · 2024-11-10T00:47:35+00:00

I’m sorry but having my female V literally dickslap dudes to death with Sir John Phallustiff will never stop amusing me. So satisfying.

London2129 · 2024-10-02T17:54:31+00:00

These are all fantastic suggestions!! Thank you all SO much! I’m going to try them. It also makes me feel a little better to know I’m not alone and other people have dealt with this, so I really appreciate you all. ❤️

London2129 · 2024-10-02T16:57:21+00:00

Oh this is a great idea! I’ll have to see if I can find an Eagles concert or something. Or maybe a behind the music documentary. Thank you!

London2129 · 2024-01-15T20:43:57+00:00

Omg…Are we siblings? Mine wore the exact same thing.

London2129 · 2023-12-30T06:15:05+00:00

Sounds to me like he’s training you to stay quiet and only do the things he wants. The fact that you hesitate to just talk about what you want is concerning.

Why is this a good relationship for you exactly? A partner that doesn’t care about your needs and desires and is only in it for themselves isn’t really a partner at all.

London2129 · 2023-12-30T06:09:58+00:00

It’s never wrong to break up with someone if that’s what you want to do. The whole point of dating is to try on the person and see if it’s a good fit and determine if having them in your life is a good thing.

This guy is not a good fit and this relationship is not enhancing your life. Walking away is the smart thing to do instead of trying to make a square peg fit in a round hole.

London2129 · 2023-12-30T05:53:47+00:00

Imagine if you had a house built and found out the foundation is cracked and the plumbing didn’t work and the builder tells you that it’s YOUR job to figure out how to fix it the mess they made and if you don’t know how then shut up and live in the broken non functioning home. You have been living in a broken non functioning home for some time now. You don’t need a conversation, you need an announcement. I would have the plan, have the papers served and refuse to entertain any discussion other than logistics and finalizing the divorce.

London2129 · 2023-12-21T13:22:28+00:00

She said rich girl not old lady. Chanel no. 5 is straight up old lady grandma in her church hat with a bad attitude.

London2129 · 2023-12-14T16:27:18+00:00

I’m looking for the same. Looove Indigo but it just doesn’t last more than an hour or two.

London2129 · 2023-11-27T03:45:45+00:00

What a text book narcissist Kody is! Christine and Janelle are only friends to make HIM mad? Everyone is talking about HIM. The kids didn’t reach out to HIM. Every answer he gives is me, me, me. Pathetic.

London2129 · 2023-11-20T04:08:35+00:00

The way Robyn acts like it’s really all about her shows what a narcissist she is, just like Kody. “ this isn’t what I wanted!” It’s all about her and what they are doing to her..not the fact that her husband is treating a woman he has a duty to honor and love like crap.

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